Our Greatest Sadness and Joy

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Help' started by altagracia57, Sep 26, 2008.

  1. Erineliza

    Erineliza Well-Known Member

    I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss. :hug: I hope Mateo's stay in the NICU is short and he is able to come home soon.
     
  2. avd1995

    avd1995 Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry :cry:

    Congrats on your sweet baby boy Mateo!

    What a mix of emotions.

    Your family will be in my prayers. :hug:
     
  3. ChristinaB

    ChristinaB Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of Cristian. God bless your family and especially Mateo at this tough and emotional time.
     
  4. kdanielleflowers

    kdanielleflowers Well-Known Member

    Many prayers for you and your family. God's blessings on your little Mateo.
     
  5. Oneplus2more

    Oneplus2more Well-Known Member

    Congratulations on the birth of sweet little Mateo!! I think he's a great weight and I hope his stay in the NICU is short!!

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Cristian :grouphug: I wish all of you strength and peace in the days, weeks and years to come!!

    I'm glad TS has been a help - please keep us posted on Mateo!!
     
  6. twoin2005

    twoin2005 Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss. :hug: What a bittersweet time this must be for you and your family. My thoughts are with you and I hope to read that Mateo is home from the NICU soon.
     
  7. muscaria10

    muscaria10 Well-Known Member

    I can't begin to say how sorry I am to hear about Cristian, but I'm sure it is also a joy to see Mateo.

    Sorry for the mixed emotions your family is going through, you'll all be in our prayers. :grouphug:
     
  8. Stephanie1074

    Stephanie1074 Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss. At the same time joyful for the birth of your beautiful baby Mateo! My thoughts will be with you and your family as you move through this challenging time.
     
  9. april mcdaniel

    april mcdaniel Well-Known Member

    Im so sorry to hear that you lost Cristian. Sening up prayers for you and your famly. Welcome to the world Mateo and congrats on his birth.
     
  10. norma88

    norma88 Member

    Thank each and every one of you for your words, thoughts and prayers. Reading each special thought for our babies has been soo helpful for me. Thank you all again.

    I feel caught in the middle of grieving for Cristian and being strong for baby Mateo as he goes through his first tough days in the NICU. I've only been able to hold him once since he was delivered. Drs say he is doing well, but will spend some time in the NICU. Mateo is on oxygen has received 2 rounds of surfactant to help his lungs mature. He hasn't opened his eyes as of yet, not sure when they do this.. maybe he is just soo uncomfortable from all the tubes and poking they are doing to him. Mateo does have a great strong spirit. he is a fighter, everyone can tell. The nurse said he lets her know every time she does something he doesn't like. We are very proud of him. The Drs are running some tests today, and if they receive the results they are looking for, Mateo will be taken off the ventilator today.

    I'm trying to recover from the c-section. I didn't realize how painful it would be afterwards.. one of the most uncomfortable and painful parts is the gas. apparently its very common to have a lot of gas and not be able to pass it? I'm taking pain meds and resting between visits to see Mateo.

    Thank you all again and thank TS for your wonderful support.
     
  11. MNTwinSquared

    MNTwinSquared Well-Known Member

    :hug: thanks for the update! I hope you heal fast! It can be rough after a c-section. Know that you have a lot of people here thinking of you. :hug: Take all your meds on a schedule.
     
  12. davdig

    davdig Member

    I'm so sorry about your loss. There are no words of comfort, just know that there are moms out there praying for your family. I hope that Mateo comes home soon and that he can help bring healing.
     
  13. Twinnylou

    Twinnylou Well-Known Member

    Im so sorry for your loss and i hope Mateo stay in the NICU is short and uneventfull one. Big :hug: to you both x
     
  14. kingeomer

    kingeomer Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    :hug: to you Joe and Norma! I am very sorry about your loss of Cristian but congratulations on your beautiful boy, Mateo.
     
  15. Neumsy

    Neumsy Well-Known Member

    Dear Joe and Norma,

    It's true, there are no words for a time of such loss that is countered with such joy. I'd imagine that you just don't even know how to feel right now. You have our deepest sympathy, and our deepest congratulations on your two beautiful boys. Mateo will have a very special gaurdian angel for the rest of his life, as will you and Norma. We will remember you all in out prayers tonight.

    Much love, and peace
    Becky, Steffen, and Owen Johnson- Peddie
     
  16. LMW1015

    LMW1015 Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss of Christian. :hug: Congratulations on Mateo and I hope he is home from the NICU very soon.
     
  17. boingerhead

    boingerhead Active Member

    I am so sorry, Norma, for the loss of Cristian, and so happy for the healthy strength of Mateo.
     
  18. happybearsfan

    happybearsfan Well-Known Member

    Mateo is absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on his birth!

    I am so, so sorry for the loss of your precious Cristian, and I cannot imagine the struggle between joy in Mateo and sadness for Cristian's loss. You will all be in my prayers.
     
  19. Mom2SaraandSam

    Mom2SaraandSam Well-Known Member

    I'm so very sorry for the loss of Christian :cry: :hug: I hope Mateo is able to leave and go home with ya'll quickly...
     
  20. hot2trottt4u

    hot2trottt4u Well-Known Member

    O i am so sorry for your loss.
    Your little one is beautiful.
     
  21. Cynthia3200

    Cynthia3200 Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Cristian. I have tears running down my face.

    Congratulations on Mateo. He is gorgeous. I hope his stay in the NICU is short and he can go home with you guys soon.
     
  22. AngelKLP13

    AngelKLP13 Well-Known Member

    I cant express in words how sorry I am for your loss. Just know that God needed another angel up there to help him out. I am so happy to hear that Mateo is doing better and I hope that his NICU stay is short and you can have him home soon. I hope your recovery from the CS gets easier. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. By the way Cristian and Mateo are both beautiful names. Mateo is very lucky to have to two of you as parents and to have an angel twin brother looking out for him through out his life!
     
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