Lost our precious girls at 19 weeks

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Help' started by ems1981, Apr 19, 2015.

  1. ems1981

    ems1981 New Member

    I don't know where to start. My pregnancy was going great apart from some early bleeding (diagnosed as a Hematoma) which was resolved by the 12 week. I started getting period like cramps (which I later realised was contractions) and made my way to A&E. By the time they did an internal I had dilated and the membranes were bulging. We were told there wasn't anything that could be done and we had to make the decision to brake my waters and deliver the babies knowing they would not survive. I'm completed devastated and have no idea why this happened so early in the pregnancy. The hospital are doing tests on the placenta and also my blood (we refused an autopsy on the babies) but has anyone ever had this happen to them? I can't eat, sleep and feeling so guilty that these two little girls were perfect but my body failed them. .
     
    ems1981, Apr 19, 2015
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  2. Rollergiraffe

    Rollergiraffe Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. I hope you're able to find the answers you need. :grouphug:
     
    Rollergiraffe, Apr 20, 2015
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  3. kingeomer

    kingeomer Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I am so very, very sorry  :grouphug:
     
    kingeomer, Apr 20, 2015
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  4. Leighann

    Leighann Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss.  
     
    Leighann, Apr 20, 2015
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  5. cheezewhiz24

    cheezewhiz24 Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    :hug:
     
    cheezewhiz24, Apr 20, 2015
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  6. monica77

    monica77 Well-Known Member

    I am sorry for your loss.
     
    monica77, Apr 20, 2015
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  7. summerfun

    summerfun Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    :(  I'm very sorry. :hug:
     
    summerfun, Apr 20, 2015
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  8. ljcrochet

    ljcrochet Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I'm so sorry
     
    ljcrochet, Apr 20, 2015
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  9. MNTwinSquared

    MNTwinSquared Well-Known Member

    So sorry for your loss. 
     
    MNTwinSquared, Apr 20, 2015
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  10. lharrison1

    lharrison1 Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I'm very sorry for your loss.  It's so hard when you dont have any answers as to why these things happen.  Please reach out and get the help you need in order to grieve and process this.  We're here for you, too.  *hugs*
     
    lharrison1, Apr 20, 2015
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  11. ECUBitzy

    ECUBitzy Well-Known Member

    I'm so incredibly sorry.
     
    ECUBitzy, Apr 20, 2015
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  12. AmynTony

    AmynTony Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss
     
    AmynTony, Apr 20, 2015
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  13. rayceryin12

    rayceryin12 Well-Known Member

    So sorry for your loss.
     
    rayceryin12, Apr 23, 2015
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  14. Bug N Cheeks

    Bug N Cheeks Member

    I am so, so sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in our prayers.  
     
    Bug N Cheeks, Apr 26, 2015
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