We lost baby B :( ***Loss mentioned***

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Help' started by CatzMeow, Jun 13, 2011.

  1. CatzMeow

    CatzMeow Member

    Our 12 wk ultrasound today was very bittersweet. Baby A was jumping all around, good strong heartbeat, measuring perfectly. But sadly, baby B has passed away. My husband and I are in total shock. We weren't expecting this at all. My body has basically already almost absorbed the other baby and they don't believe there will be any risk to the remaining baby. It all sounds so cold and clinical. After spending the past 4 weeks getting used to the idea of twins, now we've got to come down off this cloud. It's so depressing. I want to be excited for my baby that is still with us, but I'm so so very sad I'll never get to meet his/her twin.

    Ugh. :cry:
     
  2. Lougood

    Lougood Well-Known Member

    :( :hug: I'm so sorry for your loss. Congratulations on a healthy Baby A!
     
  3. lharrison1

    lharrison1 Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I am glad Baby A is doing well, but I am very sorry for your loss. :hug:
     
  4. cheezewhiz24

    cheezewhiz24 Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I felt the same way when I miscarried one- that it was clinical and cold- there was no emotion. I'm so sorry you lost B. :(
     
  5. Janclamat

    Janclamat Well-Known Member

    I am very sorry for the loss of Baby B. I am happy that Baby A is doing well though.
     
  6. Tamaralynn

    Tamaralynn Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for the loss of baby B. I am happy that baby A is doing so well.
     
  7. betha

    betha Well-Known Member

    Oh my goodness. What a shock. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    I'm glad to hear baby A is full of energy. Hugs to you.
     
  8. ward

    ward Well-Known Member

    So sorry to hear about this. I hope the remainder of your pregnancy with baby A is very uneventfull.
     
  9. Utopia122

    Utopia122 Well-Known Member

    Oh, Michelle, I'm so sorry for your loss! :cry:
     
  10. Meximeli

    Meximeli Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry for your loss.

    Congratulations on a healthy baby A, I hope the rest of your pregnancy is uneventful and that this baby brings you nothing by the joy you deserve.
     
  11. becasquared

    becasquared Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I'm sorry about the loss of Baby B. I know Baby A will bring you happiness in the future.
     
  12. twinmom2dana

    twinmom2dana Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss and I understand completely. Be encouraged, we lost our Baby B in much the same way. You may feel fear and sadness for months to come, I won't lie. I was so scared for Josiah. But we had an uneventful and smooth pregnancy til he arrived. God bless your family :grouphug:
     
  13. kingeomer

    kingeomer Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I am happy that your baby A is doing well and I am very sorry for the loss of your baby B. My best wishes for you during the rest of your pregnancy :grouphug:
     
  14. Dielle

    Dielle Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry! I lost a baby at 14 weeks, after already hearing it's heartbeat a month earlier. It's devastating, I know.

    I'm happy that things are going well for your other baby and pray that you have the peace and happiness you need right now.
     
  15. FormerNoCalGirl

    FormerNoCalGirl Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine getting this news. Thoughts are with Baby A that he/she continues to grow and be strong and healthy.
     
  16. keirin

    keirin Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry for your loss. It's always so hard to lose a baby, no matter the situation. It's okay to mourn this baby even as you celebrate the growth of his or her twin. I'll be praying for both of your babies.
     
  17. summerfun

    summerfun Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    :hug: I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad Baby A is doing well, bittersweet indeed.
     
  18. momof6

    momof6 Well-Known Member

    So very sorry for the loss of your baby. I know how devastating a loss is. Very glad to hear that your other baby is active and healthy!!!
     
  19. kt0301

    kt0301 Member

    Michelle,
    I am so sorry for your loss. {BIG HUG}
     
  20. ChaoticMum

    ChaoticMum Well-Known Member

    Huge hugs.....huge ones. My heart aches for you - I remmember that feeling of loss - yet jubiliation that I was still pregnant with my eldest son and his twin that I lost! HUGS HUGS HUGS
     
  21. staceyloraine

    staceyloraine Well-Known Member

    So sorry! Praying for you today!
     
  22. jjzollman

    jjzollman Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss of Baby B. :hug: Congrats on a healthy and active Baby A, I know he/she will bring you tremendous joy!! :hug:
     
  23. twin_trip_mommy

    twin_trip_mommy Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss. This is about the time we found out our first set went from 3 to 2. My Dr treated it all like it was nothing, baby c was absorbed and the rest of my pregnancy went well. I pray the same is true for your growing blessing inside.
     
  24. lizzbeech

    lizzbeech Guest

    I am sooo sorry to hear about your loss.... ((hugs))
     
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