update on my pains

Well on Tuesday I started spotting (not a lot just browinish), then Wednesday morning I woke up and there was blood and a pain on my right side. I called the doctor's, went in at 1:30, and found out there were no heart beats and my babies had not grown since the last time I went in. I was having a miscarriage and there was nothing they could do. I'm still bleeding and its just so painful (emotionally), since this was my first pregnancy. I haven't had any cramps but I just don't feel good and I haven't eaten since yesterday at 11:00. Apparently there was a subchorionic bleed and the doctor didn't know if that is what is causing the miscarriage or if the miscarriage started the bleed.
I just wanted to come back here and thank everyone for sharing their stories and reading mine. This site has been a wonderful place for me. I just hope I can return again one day. Thank you everyone.

 

:cray: I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. I have had 4 misscarriages and I could not eat for days. I know that there is nothing anyone could say to make you feel better. It just takes time. I will keep you in my prayers! :hug99:

 

I am so sorry for you loss. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

 

I am so sorry :hug99:

 

I am so sorry to hear your story. Miscarriages are never easy, I lost my first pregnancy as well. Please take care of yourself, my thoughts are with you. :hug99:

 

I am sorry for your loss... :hug99:

Juli

 

I'm so sorry. I also had two early losses between DS and DD. Please give yourself time to grieve. It is a loss and sometimes people (including DH) will have a hard time understanding.

You are in my prayers. There is a great book called "I'll Hold You in Heaven", that helped me a lot.

Jennifer

 

I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I aswell haev had 2 previous miscarriages and they are not easy emotionally, phyically and mentally. Hang in there and sending lots of hugs your way.

 

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I lost a baby at 12 weeks after I had my twins....something I never thought would happen after breezing through a multiple pregnancy. I know there really isn't anything anyone can say to take away the hurt. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

 

I am so sorry !

 

I'm so sorry for your loss...

 

I am so sorry!!! :hug99:

 

So sorry for your loss. I suffered my first m/c 3months after my wedding. I had 3 others and am now expecting my fourth and fifth child. You will get through this. It just sucks. As you share your story with those close to you, you will be shocked to hear how common this is. sorry again.

 

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my sons twin at around 11 weeks. There is another forum on here for loss of a twin or twins. You should check it out, it helps.

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Tiffaney

 

I'm so so sorry for you loss. I had two losses before this pregancy....and i know there is nothing that can take away your pain. I wish you peace, and a quick recovery.

 

I am so desperately sorry for your losses!!! I had two seperate losses last yr. Make sure you take care of yourself, emotionally and physically! Don't over do it physically. The heartbreak is enough without making yourself miserable physically. The Dr should be able to give you some pain meds if you need them. I'll be praying for you. I'm truelly sorry.

 

That is so awful and I really feel for you. I can't imagine how painful it must be to think you are getting to the end of the "danger zone" only to find out that you are miscarrying. I will be thinking of you and hoping that you will get to come back here one day soon with better news.

 

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

April

 

I'm so, so sorry... I remember reading your earlier posts about the growth/weeks confusion... For your sake I'm glad you didn't have to wait three more weeks to find this out.... This brings up a lot of emotion for me... my dh's cousin, very good friend's of ours, lost their twins the same week I found out I was pg... I've had a subchorionic hemmorage going on with my pg, and I'm still uneasy over how things will turn out. I hope your body mends quickly and that though your loss will never be forgotten, that time and another pg wil help to heal the loss... May God bless you! And I hope you will be back here someday soon....

 

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. As other posters have said be sure to allow yourself time to greive. People will say many things and not all will be helpful. Just be easy with yourself and know that time eases the pain. And only time will help. Best wishes to you. :hug99:

 

I am very sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers.

 

I am so sorry for your loss. I am in tears for you. :hug99:

 

I am so very sorry for your loss.

 

I am so sorry to hear that

 

I am so sorry for your loss

 

Jessica,
I just PMed you. :hug99: to you and your family. Please know that I am praying for you and I hope that you will use the life after loss board. There is a lot of support there. No matter what, you are still a twin mommy. You don't have to leave us.
Please take care of yourself.

 

Jessica...I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet babies :hug99: :hug99:

 

Oh my gosh, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep trying! :hug99:

 

Jessica, I just your post. I am so sorry for you and DH's loss. You will always be a twin mommy in my eyes. :hug99: You are in our thoughts and prayers.

 

Jessica, I am so sorry for your loss. :hug99:

 

So sorry to hear of your loss. I am praying for you. There is a parental grief board here that you might want to lok at when you are ready.

 

I am so sorry to hear about your babies. My thoughts will be with you and your family.

 

I'm really sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and I pray that you and your faily get through this.

 

I will keep you in my prayers :hug99:. May God welcome your angels with open arms.

 

i'm so sorry for your loss. i miscarried my first pregnancy. give yourself time to grieve. :hug99: