Update for now....

I went in today to be monitored for contractions, do my FFN and all of that fun stuff. I had some mild uterine irritation as they call it but much better than last week. After the tests were done I went to see my regular OB.
We talked a lot today about what we want when we get to the point of viability - meaning if my boy shows signs of distress, at what point am I ok with taking them both - it's a hard thing to think about and I told them for now until I get to 26 weeks I would not want to risk them both but I really have to see at that point how big they are and what their chances are. His goal is 32 weeks for me.......

I get anothe growth scan on Wed along with a doppler check and will sit with the Peri after that is done. My OB said both are transverse and really have been the whole time, he does not want stress on me or them so it will be a definite c-section no matter what - a little disappointed in that but I have to do what is best.

Just wanted to give a quick update...... :hug:

 

Hugs and best of luck to you. Hang in there, mama!

 

Thanks for the update. Hang in there!

Erica

 

:hug:
you guys are in my thoughts and prayers!!

~~~~grow little guy grow!!!~~~~~

 

Joanna, I know what a difficult decision this is to make. Just take it one day at a time. With IUGR for restricted blood flow, you'll still have a little time to decide once it gets to the point of needing to deliver for the smaller baby. I can't believe I'll be 32 weeks next week. It seems like just yesterday that I was admitted at 26 weeks.

You can do it momma!

ps...have they put you on stinkin' bed rest yet????

 

oh hon ((hug)) what hard decisions. I'm praying for you!

 

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Joanna, I know what a difficult decision this is to make. Just take it one day at a time. With IUGR for restricted blood flow, you'll still have a little time to decide once it gets to the point of needing to deliver for the smaller baby. I can't believe I'll be 32 weeks next week. It seems like just yesterday that I was admitted at 26 weeks.

You can do it momma!

ps...have they put you on stinkin' bed rest yet????



Thank You all sooo much.
No bedrest yet but the doc said at 28 weeks no more going into work - he is OK if they allow me to work from home (unlikely) but if not, then I'm out until they arrive. Like you, my doc feels my goal is 32 weeks so that's what I'm shooting for. Keeping little goals though - 24,26,28 etc....
Scared to pieces about the c-section though.....I'm such a baby..... :huh:

 

hi hun
one day at a time, think of how far you have got already
i used to talk to my belly, encourging words, it gave me strength as well
so your goal right know is 26weeks, see from there how everyone is doing,
you have to keep in mind they are fighters, he has alot of stregth
angela

 

Joanna,


Like you said...all we can do is take it one milestone at a time. Try not to stress out too much about the c-section. My thoughts are with you!

 

Keep hitting those milestones!

 

Im sending HUGS! It sounds like every week there is more and more hope! You are doing such a great job! Im praying for the day you get to hold BOTH babies in your arms.

 

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Im sending HUGS! It sounds like every week there is more and more hope! You are doing such a great job! Im praying for the day you get to hold BOTH babies in your arms.



Me too.....

 

Hi Joanna,
You are doing great. 32 weeks will be here in no time. In the meantime, rest, rest, rest, until you get there. Screw work there is way more important things!

As for the c-section, don't be scared. I had a c-section with my first baby and it wasn't anywhere near as bad as I thought it would be. I was really disappointed not to have a vaginal birth, but it really doesn't matter how they come out as long as they come out safe. I told my ob this time that I didn't care if he hit me over the head with a club and used an ice-pick to get them out as long as I get to take two healthy babies home at the end of it, whatever he thinks is best!! The recovery time was much quicker then I thought to. So you will be fine.

Keep updating us. Thinking of you and your little ones.

Kittymumxxx

 

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Thank You all sooo much.
No bedrest yet but the doc said at 28 weeks no more going into work - he is OK if they allow me to work from home (unlikely) but if not, then I'm out until they arrive. Like you, my doc feels my goal is 32 weeks so that's what I'm shooting for. Keeping little goals though - 24,26,28 etc....
Scared to pieces about the c-section though.....I'm such a baby..... :huh:


First of all, I wanted to tell you that you are my hero, and are just doing so amazing well! I love reading all your updates!

Don't be scared of the c-section. It's SO not a big deal. I know it seems like it should be, but it really isn't. I came home with my twins 4 days after my c-section, and still was able to carry them, change them, take the up and down the stairs (even though I don't think I was supposed to). So don't even waste your worry on that!!

Just take it one day at a time, and every day remind yourself just how amazing you are! You are doing so great, and should be really really proud of yourself!

 

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First of all, I wanted to tell you that you are my hero, and are just doing so amazing well! I love reading all your updates!

Don't be scared of the c-section. It's SO not a big deal. I know it seems like it should be, but it really isn't. I came home with my twins 4 days after my c-section, and still was able to carry them, change them, take the up and down the stairs (even though I don't think I was supposed to). So don't even waste your worry on that!!

Just take it one day at a time, and every day remind yourself just how amazing you are! You are doing so great, and should be really really proud of yourself!


You just got me all teary...thank you so much for saying such nice things....

Might I ask how long the actual c-section takes?? I just have no idea at all.....

 

We're all pulling for you... :grouphug:

 

Joanna I am so glad your little ones are doing well. 26 wks is very early and I pray you can keep them in longer than I was able to. I hate that my little ones are in the NICU.

I am still praying for you and your little ones. Congrats on a great appointment!

 

Baby steps hun, that's all you can do!! You are doing great tho so hang in there, 26 wks will be here soon and then you can decide on the next step!!

The c/s will probably take about 45 mins or so, really it doesn't take too long, the putting everything back in place and sewing you back up is what takes the longest. I've had 2, and while my first wasn't pleasant (semi-emergency), my second planned c/s with my dd was a piece of cake! :hug: As long as you stay on top of the pain meds, don't be a hero, and you can get thru it!!

 

Yep. The C-section doesn't take long. Mine (for a singleton) took about half an hour and then I spent about half an hour in recovery. I even beat my little girl back to my room!

 

Thank you so much for the update! I am always thinking of you and your little babies! You are doing so great! Keep it up! 1 more week to viability! One day at a time sweetie!

 

Sorry you're going through such a tough time. Just keep taking it day by day...you're a strong mama! My thoughts and prayers are with you. :hug:

 

Thanks again to all.....the encouragement is such a tremendous help!!!!

Big Big :hug: 's to everyone...

 

:hug: right back at ya!!! we are all here for you!

 

Glad to hear everyone is hanging in there.

 

Joanna,
You and your babies have done sooo well so far, hang in there, like you said, one step at the time.
I´m also terrified of the c-section, both my babies are breech so there is no option for me and I don´t think they have much space to turn around anymore...

 

:hug: Grow little boy, grow!

 

Thanks again everyone - I go tomorrow for another growth scan so we'll see what progress has been made....I'm hoping he has turned into the incredible hulk and is now HUGE..... Of course I hope the same for my girl, although I'd prefer she be a bit more petite.....
I have gotten bigger this week in general so I am keeping my fingers crossed....

 

You and your family continue to be in my prayers. Nana

 

We'll be looking forward to your update tomorrow!