THOSE RUDE COMMENTS

Discussion in 'The First Year' started by twingma, Oct 11, 2007.

  1. twingma

    twingma Well-Known Member

    <_< All of us who have twins know the rude and interesting <_< comments you get from people. I haave 9 month old fraternal twin grand-daughters. My daughter is Scotch-Irish/German and my sil is Greek/African-American. Obviously that allows for some unique gene combinations. Twin A is olive-skinned, with brown hair and full lips and blue eyes while her sister is porcelan skinned, strawberry blonde with little bowtie lips and blue eyes. Recently I was shopping in one of the major discount chains and was purchasing clothes for the grandbabies. I was at the checkout and chitchatting with the clerk. She said something regarding the baby clothes and I said I was buying them for my twin granddaughters. She said something like " Oh how nice. Two identical girls." I said Oh no, most definitely fraternal and went on to explain their heritage and physical traits. To which clerk replies" I bet your granddaughters dont even have the same father" <_< :angry: <_<
    After picking my jaw up off the ground I said "excuse me and she repeated herself adding when twins dont look alike they often arent twins but babies conceived by different fathers. Ok I am no old fuddy duddy and yes it is conceivable (pun) and a possibility but WTH- you say that to someone you dont know from Adam; a stranger you are waiting on. It's like I dont think so. If you saw them and their parents one of them looks just like her dad and the other just like her mom. Must say I was practically speechless.
     
  2. prairiemom3

    prairiemom3 Well-Known Member

    Wow, that's a DOOZY!!! :blink:
     
  3. Her Royal Jennyness

    Her Royal Jennyness Well-Known Member

    Thems fightin' words.... :aggressive: I would have been ticked if someone insinuated my dd was sleeping around because her twins were not ID.
     
  4. AshleyLD

    AshleyLD Well-Known Member

    :aggressive: :vava: that is what u should have done!!!
     
  5. MissyEby

    MissyEby Well-Known Member

    That would have been her last day on the job....I would have had her fired! that would have taught her to keep her stupid opinions to herself.


    Missy
    :icon_eek:
     
  6. Oneplus2more

    Oneplus2more Well-Known Member

    QUOTE(twingma @ Oct 11 2007, 11:48 PM) [snapback]446846[/snapback]
    To which clerk replies" I bet your granddaughters dont even have the same father" <_< :angry: <_<
    After picking my jaw up off the ground I said "excuse me and she repeated herself adding when twins dont look alike they often arent twins but babies conceived by different fathers.


    My DH better not shop there - my secret would be out!! :D

    Geez! I think that might take the prize for the worst twin comment ever :shok:
     
  7. MichelleL

    MichelleL Well-Known Member

    QUOTE(Her Royal Jennyness @ Oct 12 2007, 12:00 AM) [snapback]446865[/snapback]
    Thems fightin' words.... :aggressive: I would have been ticked if someone insinuated my dd was sleeping around because her twins were not ID.

    QUOTE(AshleyLD @ Oct 12 2007, 12:03 AM) [snapback]446867[/snapback]
    :aggressive: :vava: that is what u should have done!!!

    QUOTE(MissyEby @ Oct 12 2007, 07:11 AM) [snapback]447007[/snapback]
    That would have been her last day on the job....I would have had her fired! that would have taught her to keep her stupid opinions to herself.
    Missy
    :icon_eek:

    I agree with all of these replies. I have no idea why, but I was shocked. It never ceases to amaze me how crass some people can be.

    I bet your granddaughters are BEAUTIFUL!! :hug99: Maybe you can share a picture with us sometime.
     
  8. rematuska

    rematuska Well-Known Member

    Whoa! I agree - totally rude. And I think that IS the worst twin comment I have ever heard of! Sorry you had to deal with that!
     
  9. twingma

    twingma Well-Known Member

    Yeah, I was too shocked to report her to management.

    Would love to share a pic with everyone cux of course grammie thinks they are the 2 cutest girls ever but I am somewhat computer illiterate and cant figure out how to do that. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Fortunately my daughter has a good sense of humor. I called her when it happened ( course my grandbabies would live on teh opposit coast). After she said"the clerk said WHAT!?!?!", she kinda chuckled aand said"Oops, my secret is out." My son in law got a good laugh out of it too.

    And yes people are just plain STUPID and forget to engage brain befoe opening mouth.
     
  10. becky5

    becky5 Guest

    Wow. Now that was rude! :hug99:
     
  11. SilvrHeart

    SilvrHeart Well-Known Member

    oh, I would have LOST it!!!! That clerk wouldln't have know the storm that just hit her.
     
  12. fuchsiagroan

    fuchsiagroan Well-Known Member

    Oh. My. God. People are just amazing sometimes. And I do not mean that in a positive way. :angry:

    Definitely takes the cake for the rudest comment ever!
     
  13. traci_roo

    traci_roo Well-Known Member

    WOW! :icon_eek: I too would have been too shocked to say anything then, but I would have probably called the store manager after I got home and let them know. That is the most rude, insensitive twin comment I have heard!
     
  14. MNTwinSquared

    MNTwinSquared Well-Known Member

    Them fighting words!! :aggressive: My word!
     
  15. mrsfussypants

    mrsfussypants Well-Known Member

    *DING-DING-DING***** You're the winner of the worst comment ever made about twins!! That was beyond rude. What a low blow. Good thing you've got a sense of humor!

    Reyna
     
  16. Cathmar

    Cathmar Well-Known Member

    People are dumb. Period. Someone said a very classless comment to my classmate regarding her marriage and she said, "And do you think that was an appropriate thing to say to me?" A few of us were standing there when she said it and the offender just stood there with mouth agape and turned beet red! Sometimes, people seriously don't know what they're about to sound like!

    So sorry that happened.....your g'kids sounds beautiful!
     
  17. Gordana

    Gordana Well-Known Member

    She sounds like a miserable b!tch who gets off making other miserable to make herself feel better. Karma will get her back though and it won't be pretty.
     
  18. brianamurnion

    brianamurnion Well-Known Member

    I would have not been able to keep my mouth shut!! I def. would have let her have it!
     
  19. MrsBQ02

    MrsBQ02 Well-Known Member

    :eek: wow..... absolutely unbelievable............
     
  20. Joanna831

    Joanna831 Well-Known Member

    OUCH!!!
     
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