so sick and tired

I am just gonna have a vent here sorry ladies
I just feel so worn out, i dont want to move from sofa! I can hardly eat as i get really bad heart burn, i cant sleep , i have bad spd (usin a wheelchair now ) I really want to enjoy being pregnant but i just cant ! I have 2 kids both singletons and cant remember being this misrable!!!
I feel like a useless lump at moment! I want to be doing my housework , playing with the kids and all other normal mom things! but all i seem to manage is a quick tidy up and i am back on sofa crying with pain in my back!

or i just burst into tears for no reason! my poor kids are gonna think i am mad...
i still have so long to go please tell me its not always gonna be like this!

sorry for the vent but getting it all out seems to help

 

For me, it was like that until I was in a close enough range to deliver the girls. It is SO hard right now, I can relate to how you are feeling and it's not fun!! :hug99: Hang in there, the prize at the end is worth it. Especially when they get to the age of recognizing and interacting with each other, it's the sweetest thing in the entire world and absolutely priceless. You will get there! :hug99: :hug99:

 

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I am just gonna have a vent here sorry ladies
I just feel so worn out, i dont want to move from sofa! I can hardly eat as i get really bad heart burn, i cant sleep , i have bad spd (usin a wheelchair now ) I really want to enjoy being pregnant but i just cant ! I have 2 kids both singletons and cant remember being this misrable!!!
I feel like a useless lump at moment! I want to be doing my housework , playing with the kids and all other normal mom things! but all i seem to manage is a quick tidy up and i am back on sofa crying with pain in my back!

or i just burst into tears for no reason! my poor kids are gonna think i am mad...
i still have so long to go please tell me its not always gonna be like this!

sorry for the vent but getting it all out seems to help


I just want you to know i am in the same boat as you.. I am tired and hurting all the time. I am 29w1d and can not wait to be done. I have SPD but not as severe as you. I am still working but it takes absolutely everything i have out of me to get up and work an 8 hour shift. I keep telling myself you can do it, but i am starting to doubt how much longer i can pull off working 40-45 hours a week and still go home and be a wife and mom.

I know it seems like it is neverending but you WILL reap the reward afterwards. You are doing a great job. We are here for the vents with you don't hestitate when your down or frustrated. I will say some special prayers for you for some relief... Hang in there....

YOU CAN DO IT!!!

 

thank you so much for the replys... I just have to keep reminding myself this is not forever and struggle on untill september...
i just wish i was one of the people who love being pregnant lol
xx
Karen xx

 

Karen, I just wanted to send you some :hug99: . Being pregnant with twins is not easy, but I promise it will be so worth it when you're done!

 

I'm so sorry you are feeling bad I am starting to feel more and more like that too and I just keep thinking "i have too far to go to be feeling this bad so soon!" but i know it's all going to be worth it, and lots of twin/multiple mommies are going through this or have gone through this and made it... I pushed myself too hard yesterday and limped around from the pelvic pain for like an hour before I could sit down. Hang in there!! Your kids will understand and the babies will make every miserable moment disappear!!
jen

 

maybe coming out of work would help!! i stopped working at 29 1.2 weeks and things have been much better since then!! hope everything is better for you soon!

 

wow. you sound like me! mom to two singletons and pregnant with twins. this has been the hardest 9 months of my life! i will tell you though that i started feeling better in my 7th month! sure, i've gone through periods of extreme pain and i actually used a wheelchair just this weekend because we had to go somewhere that required walking (i am now 37.5 weeks) but overall the end of this pregnancy has been easier than the beginning and middle. the aches and pains sorta migrate around my body. acid reflux has been bad the whole time. speak to your doctor about taking zantac or even a prescription medication for it. they are safe for pregnancy and it helped alot! the hardest thing for me was that i had to hire someone to help me with my older two in the late afternoons. i just couldn't get up and down off the floor. it kills me everyday that i'm home watching someone play with and bathe my kids but on the other hand i've made it through to full-term so perhaps it was the best thing i did! i've also gotten my kids (4.5 and 3) to learn to play games with me at the table or do puzzles at the table so that i can participate with them. hang in there! you will make it through.

 

Girls I know the misery! I am an emotional wreck! I really thank god everyday for my patient husband! If he wasn't a patient man and thought I was like this all the time he would find the nearest attorney and file for divorce! It is getting harder and harder to get up off the couch and out of bed! And if I have one more Braxton Hicks contraction that is painful I am going to scream! And i know there is more coming!

 

hugs! it's not much longer! you're doing an awesome job! do something nice for yourself. get a pedicure and a new pair of flipflops, or get a massage (or make dh do it for you!). or even buy that overpriced bodywash youve always wanted to try, lock yourself in the bathroom, and enjoy a long hot shower or a bubble bath.