Sexy time

Bex's TC poll reminded me of a frequently asked question in the First Year, so I thought I'd post about it here to see what "normal" looks like (I suspect it's going to be a huge range!).

 

I voted but since my twins are older it might affect accuracy We have sex way more now than even before TTC! That's what happens when your too cheap to go out and nothings on TV

I will say after I had Hannah (and I blame nursing) I had to force myself to do it once a week to keep DH happy. I wanted to, my body just didn't if that makes sense

 

I know this is in the first year board, but I voted. I just want to say it was much much later than the poll really allowed for, like about 3 year old or older. I then had a family emergancy and was away from DH for 4 months, just when my twins turned 4. Really, when I returned from that trip was when we got back on track as a couple (and got an unexpected pregnancy. But one is not like two and I've never been so horny in all my life as I was when I was pregnant with just one.)

So hang in there ladies, just because it seems like it's taking forever, a year or two or three is not forever and your life will never "get back" to normal, but you will find a new and exciting you on the other end of this tunnel.

 

As far as I see, it takes a lot of time and not all the men are ready for it. So, many of them go to search for dates by this link. I am convinced that this is wrong because we all have difficult times and we should learn how to wait for our favourite person