I have twin 10 month old boys. The problem is my bf doesn't want to do it as much anymore. It used to be like at least twice a day, then after I got preggo, up untill I was showing. And now after the baby it can be anywhere from twice a month to 4 times a month. Any of you ever dated a guy who didn't want to do it as much as you?! wtf is wrong with me???
Years ago, back when my now husband was my then boyfriend and there were no young children, I could have related. But I was insecure in our relationship and I think my "drive" was really seeking acceptance and love. Now, I'm with Becky and I think scores of other new mothers and I really don't have the energy or drive (I clearly have my acceptance and love needs filled somewhere else!). Good Luck, and if you haven't already I would talk to him about it. If it's important to you, then you need to let him know how you feel. Suzi
I'm the opposite too. He wants it, I'm tired a lot. I agree with Suzi, you should definitely talk to him about it.
QUOTE(babymommatimes2 @ Dec 28 2007, 07:47 PM) [snapback]549003[/snapback] It used to be like at least twice a day wow...just wow. sorry i can't help ya but i can send my husband your way
I was just the opposite too. Have you asked him? I've read that guys will go throught weird things after pregnancy etc. - uncommon - but it happens. Talk with him about it - he may shed some light for you - or maybe not even know how you feel at all - maybe he'll jump your bones right there! :lol:
My DH is always ready for it, but when I was preggo, he never held me in a sexy way or even touched my tummy. It really made me feel, well bad I guess. I think it was just weird for him or something. things are back to normal now though. Do you guys have other troubles that maybe are affecting your sex life?
no other outside influcences should be affecting it... blah I guess it is just me. he told me his sex drive is much lower and he has always been like this
Sex? What's that? We made the babies, then I slept through the first trimester, then it was off limits because of a possible weakened cervix. Now I am totally not interested and enither is he really. Maybe we need some spice. I do not know. I just know we want more kids and at this rate that is not going to happen. LOL!
