nipple shields? postpardum depression?

Okay, I have been having trouble with bf my twins, I was wondering where I would find the nipple shields to bf them? I am ready to try anything at this point. I am basically pumping exclusively, but I am really missing that one on one time with my babies. It's not doing much for my postpardum depression.

What is the best way to improve bm supply?

Anyone else with the ppd? What did you do about it? I feel like all I want to do is sit down and cry. My poor DH comes home from work, and I am so sad, I can't hardly function at times. I think part of my depression is because I also had my tubes tied when I had the twins, and that is still difficult for me to deal with. I knew that realistically I didn't need to have anymore babies, and my DH didn't want anymore, but I am still sad that that part of my life is over. I honestly would have had more babies, if given a chance. I know people think I am crazy for wanting a large family, but I can't help it. I love that part of being a woman, and a mother. With that and the hormone craziness of having twins, it has hit me hard. I have never had it before. I thought that it was getting better, but then it hit me again. It seems like it comes and goes. I know part of it is being tired as well. Sleep deprevation can do that to a person, but not to this point.

Anyway, thanks for reading this and for any tips you have.

 

I don't know anything about nipple shields. (Sorry) Oatmeal, fenugreek and a dr's prescription can help improve supply along with breastfeeding. I think more importantly is that you schedule an appt. with your doctor and treat the PPD. That is VERY important. :hug99:

 

I got my shields as Babies r us but I think they sell them at target too. I like the avent brand b/c i've got larger areola's but the medela brand is okay too. we saw a lactation consultant who gave us some too.

I'm pumping exclusively now and to build supply I had to pump twice in-between each feeding to get enough for the next feeding at first, but now i can get 6+ oz from each every 4-5 hours.

in terms of the ppd, i think i've got a touch too... some days are better than others, but DH frequently comes home from work to tears... I feel sad, and than i'm not enjoying my girls as much as I could, and that makes me sadder... more sleep would definately help me ! We're toughing it out... i try to get out of the house with them as much as possible and do "normal" things.. I won't cry in the middle of CVS

 

I made an appointment to see a lactation consultant, who gave me the shields. I'm sorry you are having a hard time with PPD

 

Hi Tammy-
Here is a link on the nipple shield. You wear it over your nipple and it mimic's a bottle nipple and makes it easier for them to latch. It can be tricky to keep on sometimes, but if you lick the edges before putting it on that can help it stay in place. Sometimes this is just the thing they need to come back to the breast and then you can slowly try nursing w/o them.

Best ways to improve supply are to nurse or pump every 2 hrs around the clock. Nursing is better for your supply so if you can get them back to the breast that would be awesome!

As far as PPD goes, I would discuss this with your doc and also maybe check out the mental health forum here, if you want the password PM and I will let the moderator for that forum know, we are friendly bunch in there too If you mainly have sadness over having your tubes tied it may not be ppd, but those are still valid feelings that you should share. Have you discussed this with dh?

And remember it ALL gets easier over time, hang in there, and feel to vent anytime :hug99:

 

you can buy nip shields on line at breakoutbras.com. they are an awesoem site! they also give 10% discount on all orders after the first one AND free shipping. it's ups and takes about a day or two. they're awesome.

i am sorry about the ppd. i agree that talking it out w/someone who's professional is the best thing you can do. friends and family can only do so much. that said, admitting it's an issue is a really big step, so good for you!

take care and hang in there,
jl

ps: i read recently that ANY kind of feeding, sleeping or crying issues w/babies can contribute to ppd. you are not alone!

 

Great advice from pps on nipple shields!

I'm sorry you're having a hard time with PPD. Have you seen a doctor yet? If not, I highly recommend talking to a doctor about it.

PPD hit me like a sledgehammer 2 wks after delivery. I was very lucky that the hospital where I delivered has a special PPD clinic, and they got me right in. With medication and therapy (and loads of support from my DH and my mom!) I recovered. I couldn't have done it alone. Don't be afraid to ask for help - the sooner you get help, the more quickly you'll recover. Meanwhile, try to get some rest and breaks. And come here for hugs anytime! :hug99:

 

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you can buy nip shields on line at breakoutbras.com. they are an awesoem site! they also give 10% discount on all orders after the first one AND free shipping. it's ups and takes about a day or two. they're awesome.


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Here is a link on the nipple shield. You wear it over your nipple and it mimic's a bottle nipple and makes it easier for them to latch. It can be tricky to keep on sometimes, but if you lick the edges before putting it on that can help it stay in place. Sometimes this is just the thing they need to come back to the breast and then you can slowly try nursing w/o them.



Thank you so much!!!! This is exactly what I am looking for! I am going to try this and hope that things get better! I will keep all posted! ^_^

 

Same thing with me. Two weeks after they were born I was in a bad way. I am now taking Zoloft which helps a lot but I still have rough days. today was one of them. . . It is very serious, common and treatable, please call your doctor. Its hard to tell if its just hormones or what. But from all the children listed in your signature, it looks like you have your hands full! Add to that sleep deprevation, recovering from surgery, breast feeding twins - its hard!

You can do it! You can make it through this! You are a good mama!

I'm in MO too. Looking for new friends in Springfield. Where are you?