Lost That Loving Feeling

i've lost my libido and i want it back!

hubby LOVES my huge pregnant body, and desires "it" all the time, but i can't keep up. even worse, i dont want to - which i have to tell you, coming from 3-4 times a week being the norm in our entire relationship, this long dry spell is creating some unnecessary "conversations" which in turn leads to unwanted stress.

please tell me it's just a phase.

 

I had the same problem exactly. Hubby loved the body, but I felt huge and unattractive which killed my libido and led to undue stress. My best friend told me to watch some "videos" and read some "magazines" so I was the huge lady in the back room of the video store. It worked for me, and it was nice not to worry about getting pregnant again Good luck!!

 

libido definately changes but mine increased with pregnancy then just about disappeared after I had my baby. It never really came back after my 1st child and is a constant struggle.

I hope it comes back soon for you.

 

did anyone freak out with baby A being too low "during" (if you know what i mean)? i have constant pain and movement down there. feels like baby A has made a permanent home on my pelvic floor, and there is constant kicking/punching downwards into my special place while we are fooling around. it's difficult to stay focused no matter what we are doing, you know? i thought men usually feel that way, and im surprised that it's me and not him having the issue...

 

When I was pregnant with our twins My dr put me on "complete pelvic rest" which was a great excuse not to have to do that - he thought it was the dr and NOT my fault!! Little did he know that I was so uninterested! I did go through a phase at around 28 weeks where that loving feeling came back but by that time he was so afraid to touch me and with dr orders we could not anyway !! then it left again, and only now that he is 900 miles away (for work, and I only see him every now and then) has it come back <_<

 

I'm not even "allowed" anymore because of placenta previa. Poor DH.

 

I havn't lost it..andI hope that I don't....I know it's hard for some...but I'm loving it...he's not tho...lol...

 

Sadly, I lost it and don't really miss it at this point either.... Poor DH and he is all into me too....
Hopefully after they are born it will come back...

 

Dh and I made the decision when I got preg with the twins that we weren't having sex ... I was non-stop sick the first 16 weeks ... and then by the time I felt better, I was having a lot of contractions and we just figured we had our whole lives together for sex, we could wait.

Now that I'm pregnant with someone elses kids, my DH really doesn't want to do it! He said he's willing to wait for me again, but this is it! No more 9 month droughts!

 

i still have it... in fact i have it with a vengence. i dont think its going away. it went away with dh though oh well, heres hoping it comes back, both for you, and for him.

 

I still have it and I'm taking advantage of it for as long as it's here. I know from past experience that after birth, there is a long dry spell waiting. <_<

 

thank you all so much for your replies - so nice to know that im not alone!

 

I still have it, but it's just returning now (like in the past two weeks) I just felt BLAH up until now. I am not very far along so I am hoping it stays that way.

 

We had sex once when i was preggers and i just didnt feel like it anymore so we didnt do it. We did other things if you kwim!! That seemed to keep him happy lol! Hope it returns soon x

 

My Libido was at it height during my pg. i wanted to all the time. dh couldnt keep up. But now its missing in action, and i dont have the time or energy to go look for it. <_<