Sorry - new to this whole world. Just curious what will happen when DH and I are intamate again. Am I going to spray him in the eye? :lol: Am I going to leak all over the place? Do you normally just wear a top of some kind? Thanks ladies!
it's really "unsexy" here. i keep my bra and top on. :blush: but as soon as i stop pumping, the shirt/bra's comin' off!
I haven't had any spraying or leaking during any intimate moments, but some people do leak. I am pretty certain there won't be any spraying Personally, I don't like my breasts being touched by anyone or anything right now, but that's just me.
When I was breastfeeding...there was no spraying in the eye. There was leaking though. (sry if this is tmi)when we were intimate they did leak..it isn't as bad if you've either pumped or bf'd before hand..!
QUOTE(sullivanre @ Sep 6 2008, 10:26 PM) [snapback]967281[/snapback] Personally, I don't like my breasts being touched by anyone or anything right now, but that's just me. I was fine with touching before I breastfed, but now they are for different reasons. DH doesn't grasp that concept. He goes for them, I think about feedings. But, that isn't what you asked.. I wear a bra to bed partly because when I had the twins, those first 6 weeks if I nursed one baby, I'd be dripping on the other side, or I was so full that if I was walking around with no bra, I'd be dripping. DH hasn't experienced any spraying or leaking from me during intamacy though. Great question!
I always make sure I have pumped or bf the babies before we have sex. That helps so DH doesn't trigger a letdown. But to be honest (way too much information) my DH doesn't mind the taste.
I've never leaked while DTD. However, like pps, my breasts are now off limits. I just really don't want to be touched there.
I always keep a burp cloth handy. Right after the babies feed also helps. (And what time ISN'T right after the babies feed? ;-) )
I am always wearing a bra or nursing tank. It always triggers a let down for me so I am always covered on top.
I've sprayed, I've leaked..... LOL I wear a bra to bed, becuase if I don't I leak. It comes off during intimacy though, hence getting DH all wet! He doesn't mind that, he laughs it off. It's not the same though while you're BFing. That's normally one of my big turn on spots, but when I'm BFing (both with the twins and this one) it's the BIGGEST turn off - mainly becuase they're being used to feed, and when he touches them that's all I can think about. And it just doesn't feel the same. I dunno if it's hormones that do that to you, but they are so de-sensitized right now. DH doesn't get that - he thinks that I can apparently switch from baby feeding mode to adult, sexxy mode just like that, and you can't. I try to steer him in other directions as much as possible......
QUOTE(blueclouds @ Sep 9 2008, 12:48 AM) [snapback]970788[/snapback] It's not the same though while you're BFing. That's normally one of my big turn on spots, but when I'm BFing (both with the twins and this one) it's the BIGGEST turn off - mainly becuase they're being used to feed, and when he touches them that's all I can think about. And it just doesn't feel the same. I dunno if it's hormones that do that to you, but they are so de-sensitized right now. DH doesn't get that - he thinks that I can apparently switch from baby feeding mode to adult, sexxy mode just like that, and you can't. I try to steer him in other directions as much as possible...... Same here!!! I've never leaked or anything while fooling around but I always keep a top on. DH learned while I was BFing the twins that they were off-limits to him. So now he jokes that Avery is just leasing them from him for a little while.
