I remember this time last year i had a great big bump and was loving being pregnant. Now in a few weeks time they are going to be 1 . It makes me so sad to think that they are growing up and arnt really babies any more. I mean i am enjoying them so much its great watching them learn new things every day . But i just miss the baby stage so much. I have tried to persude my partner for another one but he says we cant afford it. I know it sounds really silly but i want another chance at being pregnant. I loved it. I didnt find out i was pregnant untill i was 12 weeks last time and had them @ 32 so i want to have a chance to see what a full pregnancy feels like! I suspose i felt cheated lol. I suspose i will just have to keep working on him and hope he changes his mind. Oh well thanks for letting me vent x
I honestly know what you mean. Mine are growing up, quickly... that is why I was sure I wanted another baby. I am not getting my tubes tied after this one either, because I know I will want another... later on down the road! {{{{HUGS}}}}
I am glad someone else feels like this too!! It is true at the moment we cant afford it as childcare costs so much over here there really isnt much point in me working fulltime untill the go to school. But i dont want to wait untill they are 5 for another one i WANT ONE NOW!!! I sound like a 2 year old lol! I keep telling him that it could be one baby this time but myself i dont think it comes down to money i think it come down to us maybe having another set of twins. I dont think i would see him for dust if it was!! He had a really hard time with these 2 and it has only been in the last few months that he has started enjoying them. Oh well thanks for letting me vent again!! You all must think i am crazy! x
There are lots of days I feel that way too......other days I'm glad its just the twins. I'm really on the fence about another baby.
I feel the same way. I can't wait unti I can get pregnant again, I also loved it. Its funny how quickly you forget the things you hated and all you want is to do it again.
:hug99: They do grow up fast! Don't worry -- you have plenty of time to have another! Enjoy them now while you can!
While I cannot commiserate on missing being pregnant I can tell you that I felt really sad that they were turning 1! It went so fast. But I quickly realized that they just get more and more fun from here on out! They are now 2 (how on earth did that happen?) and it's so fun!! I hope you have a great birthday for them and enjoy it! You just never know what will happen. I hope you have all the kids you'd like (and a way to afford it!)
:hug99: I, too, wish somedays that we would have another. Hopefully one day you will be able to have another, until then enjoy! :hug99:
You read my mind!! Only, I'm not ready to try for another one JUST YET, I think it won't be long. I've been crying during "A Baby Story", which is a sure sign. I can't get rid of their clothes, I have 2 huge boxes full for "just in case". I found a sock of Zoe's from when she came home from the hospital the other day & just about cried, it was sooooo tiny. If I actually see a newborn in person, Lord help us! And I LOVE watching all the new stuff they do every day, but I get so sad when I think how fast they're growing.
