Hi everyone! I just found out this week that I am expecting twins, and I'm so freaked out! I'm so worried about the medical complications. I had my singleton son at 37 weeks when I developed pre eclampsia. Aren't you way more at risk for pre eclampsia when there is more than one baby? Also, speaking of my son, I'm so worried about how he's going to adjust and about me giving him enough attention. Plus, taking care of two newborns? I am so overwhelmed? I'm so glad I was referred to this board because I really need support to get through this!
Welcome!! You will love it here! I was in tears when I found out I was having twins.I found out at 6 weeks.We did the ultrasound bc of bleeding and sure enough there were two. We were trying for a boy and I got identical twin girls out of the deal.I already had a 5 and 3 yo daughters so I was freaked out because I was going from 2 to 4. I know a friend of mine had her twins the week before me and she was induced because of pre eclampsia.She had seizures and everything after she delivered. I on the other hand never had any problems except with a kidney stone in which I had 2 seperate stents put in and had several bouts of PTL.I was put on bed rest for about 9 weeks and on procardia.There are people who have problems with the pregnancy and others who just sail through it.I did have severe nausuea for like 12 weeks and was put on Phenergan.I would just keep in close contact with your dr.and don't be afraid to ask questions because a twin pregnancy is different.I would also suggest getting a pregnancy book for twins not just a singelton pregnancy so you can be aware of things to look for and it gives good tips on questions to ask at appointments. As far as your other child adjusting.How old? Mine did fine but my husband pretty much does things with them and I stick with the babies.Mine did well.They are a big help.My oldest can help feed bottles during the day and get diapers,toys,throw diapers away etc.I would just talk about the babies alot and involve them in things.For example we took the girls to our ultrasounds so they could see the babies.They loved it!!When the babies do get here.Let them help.Even if its just little things.It will make them feel important and needed.plus help you out,you'll need all the help you can get.good luck!
First of all- Congrats!!!! There are some extra risks with twin pregnancies, but there are also lots of women who sail through with no issues. It's great to educate yourself, but don't overwhelm yourself with information. I don't have any other children besides the twins, so I don't have any advice for you there. There are several moms here though that do have older children and I'm sure they can help you with tips and advice when you need it. :welcome:
:welcome: to TS & congrats on the news of your double blessings! I hope you have a smooth pregnancy this time around with no complications!
Welcome, and congratulations! It sounds like we're in very similar boats -- my son is also 2.5 years old, and he was born at 37 weeks because I had developed HELLP syndrome (a type of preeclampsia). I've also been nervous about preeclampsia (from what I've read, having twins may make us more susceptible to a recurrence), so just make sure your doc knows your history and keeps tabs on everything. As for how to handle two newborns and a three-year-old.... I have no idea, either, but I'm sure we'll get through it!!
Hi! Congrats! I am 25 weeks with fraternal boy/girl twins and I have a daughter who will be 2.5 when they are born!~ When I found out it was twins, I freaked out....still do at times! LOL. All I can say is, relax, listen to your body and buy a book on twin pregnancies not singletons. And, be aware of the signs of complications or issues, but don't obsess over them. I have a real hard time staying off the internet, which of course is FILLED with the bad stories regarding complications! Good luck to you and glad you found this board. Lot's of helpful people here!
Welcome to twinstuff! I too had my first at 37 weeks due to preclampsia. Fortunately, I didn't develop it again in my second pregnancy. I had my second daughter at 39 1/2 weeks. Now with the twins, so far I haven't had any issues with my blood pressure so hopefully I've avoided it this time too. My youngest just turned three so I'm also a bit worried about how she'll handle life with two newborn, but everyone tells me that kids adjust to twins just as easily as any new baby. I am planning on giving my girls twin babies of their own from the boys once they are here. Otherwise, I'll just do what you can to spend time with them. I plan to nurse and I know that you can all snuggle in bed and watch a movie while nursing so that's one way to include the girls. I have also lined up a lot of friends and family members to come over after the boys are born specifically to play with my older kids and/or to take them on some fun outings.
[SIZE=12pt]HI!!!! And big Congratulations on expecting twins!!!!!! I know the feeling of shock and overwhelment when you find out it's twins, but trust me, this feeling soon turns to great excitment and happiness for a double blessing. About the medical complications, i would say talk to your doctor about all your concerns. Wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy [/SIZE]
:welcome: to TS! You are going to love it here! I found it 2 weeks after I found out I was having twins and it saved my sanity (and still does!). There are a ton of questions that you will have, but come here and we'll help out! How far along are you? We didn't find out until 19 weeks and delivered at 33 weeks so that wasn't much time to let it sink in. I didn't have PreE, but my water broke. I'm not sure what the risks are of pree with twins vs singletons. I'm sure your son will do well. Kids adjust really well to things we would think were traumatic. P.S. I love your screen name! I wish I was that creative...and that I had a donut! :laughing:
Hello! I found out really late in the game that we were having twins... at 19 weeks! I feel like everybody else had/has alot more time to prepare..lol!! Anyway, I have an almost 2 year old and am expecting B/G twins in July. At first the thought was really overwhelming...and I have to admit it still is at times, but once the shock and terror of it all wore off I'm starting to get excited about it. Especially when I got to go shopping for everything Now my goal is to just keep them in there as long as possible! All I can do is hope and pray. As for medical issues... now that they know you had it in a prior pregnancy they will watch you more carefully this time. If you do end up developing it hopefully you will develop it late in your pregnancy like you did your son. 37 weeks is full term for twins anyway. But just try to relax...and make sure you discuss all of your concerns with your OB. God bless!
QUOTE(twinssofar @ Apr 18 2009, 03:19 PM) [snapback]1279046[/snapback] Welcome, and congratulations! It sounds like we're in very similar boats -- my son is also 2.5 years old, and he was born at 37 weeks because I had developed HELLP syndrome (a type of preeclampsia). I've also been nervous about preeclampsia (from what I've read, having twins may make us more susceptible to a recurrence), so just make sure your doc knows your history and keeps tabs on everything. As for how to handle two newborns and a three-year-old.... I have no idea, either, but I'm sure we'll get through it!! OOH, sounds like we have a lot in common! How far along are you? I'm 8 weeks.
QUOTE(dowlinal @ Apr 18 2009, 04:05 PM) [snapback]1279078[/snapback] Welcome to twinstuff! I too had my first at 37 weeks due to preclampsia. Fortunately, I didn't develop it again in my second pregnancy. I had my second daughter at 39 1/2 weeks. Now with the twins, so far I haven't had any issues with my blood pressure so hopefully I've avoided it this time too. My youngest just turned three so I'm also a bit worried about how she'll handle life with two newborn, but everyone tells me that kids adjust to twins just as easily as any new baby. I am planning on giving my girls twin babies of their own from the boys once they are here. Otherwise, I'll just do what you can to spend time with them. I plan to nurse and I know that you can all snuggle in bed and watch a movie while nursing so that's one way to include the girls. I have also lined up a lot of friends and family members to come over after the boys are born specifically to play with my older kids and/or to take them on some fun outings. That's great news! Both about your lack of pre eclampsia after #1 and that twins are just as easy to adjust to!
Hi and welcome to Twinstuff! :welcome: Congrats on your twins!! :clapping: This is an excellent site for support, I think you will find that out real soon.
WELCOME & congratulations on your twin pregnancy!!! :yahoo: I know you will find this site extremly helpful :good: Looking forward to having you here!
