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Sad news, I had a mc on Saturday. I have never gone through this before so I don't know what happened or what I did wrong. I have been a total mess. I told DH when we found out we were pregnant that I was not ready but then I saw the first u/s and it changed. I wanted it more than anything. I'm not sure how to deal yet! I know I wasn't that far along but I still had so much love in my heart for this child. I know that others have went through this but I swear I feel so alone. I just figured I would let all of my TS buddies know why I am about to take my ticker off!

 

QUOTE(pink and blue mom @ Mar 13 2008, 03:11 PM) [snapback]667600[/snapback]
Sad news, I had a mc on Saturday. I have never gone through this before so I don't know what happened or what I did wrong.


:love0028: I'm so sorry. Just wanted to tell you that I'm sure you didn't do anything wrong. Wish there was more I could say or do. You will be in my thoughts. Hang in there. :love0028:

 

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I have never gone through this before so I don't know what happened or what I did wrong.
I am so sorry for your loss and I am sorry you feel like its something you did, it wasnt! I hope your heart heals soon. :hug99: :hug99:

 

I'm so sorry!

 

I'm so sorry to hear this!! :hug99: My heart goes out to you!

 

:hug99:

 

Oh goodness.. I'm so sorry for your loss. The begining was really hard for me and it did get easier as time went on. Know that it was nothing you did or could have done. :love0028:

 

So sorry to hear this. :love0028:

 

I am so sorry for your loss.

Pleas evisist the wonderful ladies at Parental Grief.

Please remember, you did nothing wrong.

 

:love0028: I am so sorry for your loss. :love0028:

 

I'm so sorry :love0028: .

 

You really didn't do anything wrong. :hug99: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Grieve how you need to grieve. We're here for you.

 

I am so sorry for your loss. :hug99:

 

I am so sorry. I have also had a m/c. If you would like to chat PM me.

 

I am so sorry for your loss. :hug99:

 

So Sorry :hug99:

 

QUOTE(pink and blue mom @ Mar 13 2008, 02:11 PM) [snapback]667600[/snapback]
Sad news, I had a mc on Saturday. I have never gone through this before so I don't know what happened or what I did wrong. I have been a total mess. I told DH when we found out we were pregnant that I was not ready but then I saw the first u/s and it changed. I wanted it more than anything. I'm not sure how to deal yet! I know I wasn't that far along but I still had so much love in my heart for this child. I know that others have went through this but I swear I feel so alone. I just figured I would let all of my TS buddies know why I am about to take my ticker off!


I am so sorry to read this about your loss. I assure you that your loss is very real and it hurts. I went through this last year and it was first term loss. It still bothers me today. I know how much you loved and wanted your child even if you had doubts now and again (Completely normal). Please know that you did not do anything wrong. I would like to invite you to PArental Grief to talk about your angel and to openly grieve with us -- as we understand. Hugs and I am so sorry.

 

I am so sorry to hear this. Please know that it was nothing you did wrong. Unfortunately, these things happen, but it doesn't mean it is easy. Hang in there, you are not alone. :hug99:

 

:hug99: :hug99: I'm so sorry. :hug99: :hug99:

 

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

I am so sorry. :hug99:

 

Thank You all for your hugs and well wishes!

 

I'm so terribly sorry. I wish there were something I could say to make you feel better. I will be thinking of you and your family. :love0028:

 

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. :hug99: Your angel is watching over you every day. :hug99:

 

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

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I'm so sorry for your loss! Feeling alone and wondering what you did wrong are normal. But you didn't do anything wrong, I'm sure! It's just what happens sometimes. I know I just hurt all over when I had my first miscarriage. And it wasn't a physical pain, but my heart ached so much that I really felt it everywhere. It's been almost 4 years and sometimes I still tear up when I think about it. But I don't hurt like I used to. I hope you're able to find some peace and comfort soon!!!

 

I know that my words are inadequate, but I am truly very sorry for your loss. :hug99:

 

I am so sorry. The guilt can be overwhelming, but all that you are feeling is pefectly normal. Once you start to talk about it, it is amazing how many others have felt the same, I know I did every time. You will always remember your angel, but it does get easier.
Greive how you need to, and keep reaching out to others. You are in my prayers.

 

I'm so sorry for your loss :hug99: We are all here for you :love0028:

 

Hugs to you!!!! Please know that you did not do anything wrong! My thougths are with you! :love0028:

 

So sorry to hear. My prayer are wit you.

 

Im very sorry Christine. Please come over to parental grief, we are here for you.

 

:hug99: Christine :hug99:
I'm so sorry to hear about this. My heart goes out to you.