How do I find someone I can just be comfortable with?

Discussion in 'General' started by lauwss, Mar 25, 2025.

  1. lauwss

    lauwss Well-Known Member

    I’m tired of being alone, but I also can’t live with someone I’m not attracted to. I know this sounds absurd, but I really just want to find someone I get along with. But I have serious doubts that anyone out there has the same mindset as me, so we’ll never match.
     
  2. WhiskeyTangoFoxtrot

    WhiskeyTangoFoxtrot Well-Known Member

    Bro, are you serious? There are billions of people on this planet, and you’re seriously wondering if your wishes are unique or if there’s at least one person who thinks like you? Trust me, there are tons of people like that. Go on some dating sites, and you’ll find them.
     
  3. hipiva

    hipiva Well-Known Member

    Sometimes, comfort isn’t about logic—it’s about intuition. If someone gives you a sense of calm, familiarity, and security, trust that feeling. On the flip side, if you feel drained or uneasy around someone, that’s a sign they may not be the right fit for your life.
     
  4. Jeraldina

    Jeraldina Well-Known Member

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  5. Bestian

    Bestian Well-Known Member

    By the way, dating sites are actually pretty diverse, which I like, because the traditional ones where everyone’s looking for a soulmate are just not my thing. But the local dating sites that help me find fun conversations, new experiences, short-term connections, and all that “non-serious” stuff? I’m all for it. So I’m sure you’ll find someone who fits your needs too.
     
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