Hi ...

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Help' started by caba, Dec 15, 2008.

  1. caba

    caba Banned

    So, I announced this is the Corn, but I'll tell you all here too! I'm currently 4w2d pregnant! But it's not mine, or my husbands. ;)

    I'm a surrogate for my sister, who can't have kids due to recently being diagnosed with breast cancer. We just found out on Friday that the test was positive and had our second beta yesterday, and all the numbers are rising appropriately, so we are pretty excited!

    Its SO early ... so it's hard for both of us to get too crazy about it ... I got pregnant with my twins via IVF, and my sister was going through IVF before the cancer diagnosis, so we both know how all the things that could go wrong, and how early it really is! But we are trying to stay positive and just take it one day at a time ...

    I am scheduled for my first ultrasound one week from today, on Dec 22nd. We did transfer 4 embryos in, so we are excited and curious to see how many buddies are sticking around!

    Anyway, I'm really hoping to spend the next 8 months with you guys!

    Erica
     
  2. oh-baby-baby

    oh-baby-baby Well-Known Member

    congrats and good luck!!

    That's a wonderful thing that you are doing for your sister!
     
  3. brookbranplus2

    brookbranplus2 Well-Known Member

    Wow, Congrats!!
     
  4. MNTwinSquared

    MNTwinSquared Well-Known Member

    Congrats again! That is a huge gift for your sister! :bow2:
     
  5. hot2trottt4u

    hot2trottt4u Well-Known Member

    How wonderful
    Congrats to you and your sister
    what a gift!
     
  6. Dielle

    Dielle Well-Known Member

    So wonderfully exciting! I really think it's such an amazing thing you're doing for your sister!
     
  7. Heathermomof5

    Heathermomof5 Well-Known Member

    I am SO excited for both of you!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!
     
  8. 2IrishBlessings

    2IrishBlessings Well-Known Member

    That is so wonderful what you are doing for your sister! Sending you sticky vibes. COngratulations!!
     
  9. happybearsfan

    happybearsfan Well-Known Member

    That is amazing! CONGRATULATIONS and sticky, healthy vibes - you are the best sister ever. :)
     
  10. pamallhoney

    pamallhoney Well-Known Member

    Wow, this is just so wonderful!!! I'll post here and not on your facebook. :) Can't wait to hear how many. What a special gift to your sister.
     
  11. Ali M

    Ali M Well-Known Member

    Congratulations Erica! :Clap:
     
  12. avd1995

    avd1995 Well-Known Member

    You are an awesome sister!
    :Clap:
    How exciting!
     
  13. PJ

    PJ Well-Known Member

    Congratulations to your sister (& you!)!!!

    Are you nervous about having 4 transferred?? I did IVF to have my daughter and we transferred 3..but only 1 was good quality.
     
  14. caba

    caba Banned

    QUOTE(PJ @ Dec 15 2008, 10:23 PM) [snapback]1112091[/snapback]
    Congratulations to your sister (& you!)!!!

    Are you nervous about having 4 transferred?? I did IVF to have my daughter and we transferred 3..but only 1 was good quality.


    I just saw this!

    I was slightly nervous ... but the doctor gave me us a less than 1% chance that all would take, and less then 3% that even 3 would take ... I guess 2 weren't great quality, and 2 were ok quality ... so I'm concerned, but trying not to think about it too much ...

    I know they say that beta #s aren't truly indicative of # of embies, but my beta was higher with my twins ... so I'm thinking a singleton or twins, but not more!
     
  15. valentinetwins

    valentinetwins Well-Known Member

    Erica, what a wonderful, selfless thing you are doing for your sister!!!!! I felt like crying while reading your post! You are AWESOME!!!!!! Keep us posted on how your ultrasound goes.
     
  16. PJ

    PJ Well-Known Member

    QUOTE(caba @ Dec 17 2008, 08:45 AM) [snapback]1113889[/snapback]
    I just saw this!

    I was slightly nervous ... but the doctor gave me us a less than 1% chance that all would take, and less then 3% that even 3 would take ... I guess 2 weren't great quality, and 2 were ok quality ... so I'm concerned, but trying not to think about it too much ...

    I know they say that beta #s aren't truly indicative of # of embies, but my beta was higher with my twins ... so I'm thinking a singleton or twins, but not more!


    I look forward to hearing about the "head count". Is your sister hoping for twins? When is your u/s? Oops - just saw you said 12/22 - that's tomorrow! I will be looking for an update. :)
     
  17. MichelleL

    MichelleL Well-Known Member

    Good luck tomorrow, I can't wait to hear how many beans there are!! :Clap:
     
  18. caba

    caba Banned

    The beans have been counted. We will need a recount next week. :cool:

    There are 3 sacs! But only 2 of them contain fetal poles ... so the doctor said it could be that one started implant and then just stopped growing, and it could just be a late implanter, and hasn't gotten to that stage yet.

    So next week we shall see if #3 decided to show up to the game or not.

    Oh my is really all I can say right now. I'm overwhelmed, scared, nervous, but mostly excited. Just seeing the faces of my sis and her DH holding their ultrasound pics make it all worthwhile.

    The morning sickness does suck though. That started this weekend! Ugh!
     
  19. Renald99

    Renald99 Well-Known Member

    Sounds like things are looking good. Congrats to you all & I hope the MS gets better.
     
  20. PJ

    PJ Well-Known Member

    Oh my goodness! Congrats to your sis and her husband!! I hope your m/s eases up soon...
    And I'm looking forward to hearing about the recount.
     
  21. twinzmom2b

    twinzmom2b Well-Known Member

    Wow, I can't believe you might be carrying trips for them! That's crazy, but so awesome!!! I'll be hoping for the best at your u/s next! Can't wait to hear!
     
  22. marcy874

    marcy874 Well-Known Member

    That is awesome! I hope the pregnancy is an easy one for you!!
     
  23. happybearsfan

    happybearsfan Well-Known Member

    Amazing!! Take care of yourself!
     
  24. chris629

    chris629 Well-Known Member

    That is so awesome of you! Congrats to your sis and her dh!!!!
     
  25. pamallhoney

    pamallhoney Well-Known Member

    Erica when do you go in this week?
     
  26. CHJH

    CHJH Well-Known Member

    Can't wait for an update on this thread - 2 or 3?!
     
  27. Marieber

    Marieber Well-Known Member

    She updated in the Corn -- you need to upgrade! ;)

    I'll leave it to her to spill...
     
  28. CHJH

    CHJH Well-Known Member

    What the heck is the corn?
     
  29. pamallhoney

    pamallhoney Well-Known Member

    Erica---POST HERE FOR EVERYONE!!!
     
  30. caba

    caba Banned

    Sorry guys!!

    Here's the low down.

    3 sacs. 3 babies. 3 heartbeats. 3 people wanting to yell holy crap!

    and one very sick me.
     
  31. avd1995

    avd1995 Well-Known Member

    Wow! What a blessing!

    Hope you feel better soon! :hug:
     
  32. valentinetwins

    valentinetwins Well-Known Member

    WOW, how amazing!!! I hope you feel better soon.
     
  33. b/gtwinmom07

    b/gtwinmom07 Well-Known Member

    Oh Wow Erica how incredibly sweet of you to do this for your sister and now she is going to have triplets! WOW!!!! Well congrats to you and her and hre is to a happy and healthy 9 months and wow...so excited for you both!
     
  34. Brizzy_Twins

    Brizzy_Twins Well-Known Member

    thats amazing! what a heart u have to do this for your sister, Your amazing.. All the best! Keep us updated! Its so exciting :)
     
  35. sugamomma

    sugamomma Member

    That is so awesome that you are doing this for your sister. You are a very amazing person. Congrats to all involved with the triplets!
     

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