has this happened to any 1

good morning to all of you expecting mommies,hope all of you had a good day so far!!!!!
well here is my story,i don't know if any of you ladies are going thru this but in my case it is really bad
the pregnancy is taking a tow on my body i can't sleep i can't barely walk, i can't get out of bed without any help from dh,and two weeks ago i haded to go into l & d b/c i was contracting and received two shots of terb,thanx god that they stopped and got to go home that same day at night and haded to be on bed rest,well since then i've been a really pain in the ***,i don't want to act like this but i can't help it,everything bothers me nothing is never right,my dh says that i have it with him that everything that he does is wrong in my eyes and just yesturday he proved to be right,since i got upfrom bed yesturday i was really cranky i didn't want no one to talk to me or anything(i don't realize that i'm acting like that until dh tells me to calm down)anyways he went to work and came back around 11 am and from there my whole day was ****,we started arguing(don't remember for what it was)and i just broke down crying and telling him that i was going to pick up my stuff and leave b/c he didn't care about me anymore,he thinks that i act like that b/c of me not b/c of the preg so he don't realize that every single day i'm in pain but yet i have to take care of my 3 kids plus my sister's 3 kids and they drive me crazy,i get really cranky when i clean and then five minutes later everything is a mess again i want to be able to sit and relax i don't even take naps in the afternoon no more i don't have time. Don't get me wrong yesturday i said things that i didn't really mean to say i told dh that i was really sorry and that i didn't mean to say those things that i said,but to understand my frustration also,its not my body anymore babies took over every inch of my body they get me and put me the way they feel comfortable to them and i can't do anything about it!!!!sorry ladies i just haded to take this out of my chest and get some advice how to cope with all this plizzz :sorry:

thanx for reading and understanding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Pregnancy does take a toll on the body, especially a twin pregnancy. Not to mention all the hormones.

If you are on bedrest how are you taking care of so many kids? I hope things improve. :hug99:

 

Glad to hear I am not the only one!! I was fine my whole preg but I have been on bedrest since 27wks and since then I have become very angry and emotional. I am not used to having to ask for people to do things for me and its taking a toll on my pride. Oh right, plus I cry now! I havent cried in about 10 yrs and now for no good reason I just start crying. Ugh!!
Today is definitely one of those says when I could really just tear into someone for no reason whatsoever!

 

I have had a lot of harmonal issues lately too. I get so angry and upset over the slightest thing. Not pregnant I am able to cope with whatever but lately I have had a lot of emotional problems and I do feel helpless at times. My DH called me helpless the other night when we got into an argument and I just fell apart b/c I dont like feeling helpless or being called that. The end is near when we will get to hold and meet our babies and we will realize that it is all worth it.

 

I'm so sorry you are in pain and just uncomfortable.

Hormones are not a fun thing! One thing that has helped me is making my hubby read this forum. I don't know if that would help you but it gave him a "better prespective" that I am not crazy nor alone in my pregnancy madness.

I too am on bed rest (well actually semi bedrest) and I totally am amazed by you that you are also taking care of so many children! This also has to be taking a toll on you - which can add to the crankiness/tiredness/and not being happy.

This might make you giggle at how you are not alone!! I got extremely hormonal the other day when my hubby said "you didn't do the laundry?" when he got home from work because his favorite shirt wasn't washed. I snapped... literally. I started crying and told him how he hated me and doesn't appreciate me and went upstairs to our room... He said I was quiet for too long and found out why.... I got so pissed as I started thinking about what he said I just got more upset... and took ALL I do mean ALL his clothes and threw them in the tub, and turned on the shower... and when he saw that I told him all his clothes are now clean.

After all was said and done, and he realized what happen, he started laughing at me (which upset me even more!) and said "Yes, I have allot of clean clothes now" and dragged me out of the bathroom (which had to be comical to watch, because he was grunting the entire time). He had to stay home the next day and do his laundry the entire day since EVERYTHING (even his underwear) was soaked.

We still go through out tiff's and I wish you the best... I keep thinking it's almost over and my emotions will hopfully level out. I wish you all the best and good luck!

 

Aww, here's a hug for you.. :hug99:

It sounds like you are taking on too much. It's time to lower your expectations, tell your sister to find someone else to watch her kids, pay for some neighborhood girl to help with the housework for $10 or whatever you can do to ease your burden.

Here's another hug :hug99: and try to remember that it will all be worth it, I promise!!

 

I am not on bedrest but I can relate to you I too am emotional, but it is only when it comes to my bofriend he can make me start bawling by doing the swwetest little thing or just foretting to call me, But he knows that is is cuz I am pregnant we actually barely had any disagreements this whole pregnancy. Now that I think about it he is really actually doing really good as support. However I totally agree with you on cleaning up one minute and 5 minutes later there is a mess that drives me crazy. I am nesting like crazy, but you should be taking it easy if you are on bedrest. Not cleaning that can be strenuous I hope things get better for you just relax, and try not to let small things stress you out, I hope you feel better soon :hug99:

 

It is really difficult. Just realize that it isn't forever(even though it seems that way), and you just need to do what you can to take care of yourself until they arrive. Hang in there. :hug99: