Has anyone seen...

my mojo :search: :unknw: ??? It's MISSING!!!!!


Seriously, I have had NO sex drive since the babies have been born. I have always been a physical woman and now.... well there is just no interest. I can't even psych myself into it. The few times we have done "it," it was enjoyable, but I just can't get in the mood to initiate, and since DH has never been the initiator (it has ALWAYS fallen on me ) it just isn't going to happen!

Please tell me this is temporary! Is it due to BF, PP hormones, exhaustion or is it just permanently gone :cray: ?

 

It will come back... its just scared of the babies!

 

:hug99: I can't make any promises but for me things got better when the kids were sleeping through the night and things got easier in general with them. Unfortunately my DS had reflux pretty bad, so that didn't get better until they were around nine months. Hey, I guess I should be happy it happened, right! I hope you find your MOJO soon. :lol:

 

:search: I can't find mine either! :search:

:hug99:

 

Things finally came around after I weaned. (at 9 months!)

 

Still looking for mine. I go back for my annual check up soon and am going to talk to my Dr about it.

 

Mine came back somewhat when they started STTN and something else besides sleep could fit in my train of thoughts, lol (that was at 11 months :icon_eek: ). Then got pretty much back to normal around 15 months, that was when I cut back on my bfing.

 

The thought of sex literally made me nauseous until the boys were about 6 months. I'm really not kidding-I would think about it try to get myself in the mood and I would feel physically ill. Now I have fleeting moments where I will be "in the mood" and if DH can't pick up on it within 10 minutes of that feeling, it's all over. He has to initiate EVERYTHING and I feel really bad about it. Once things get going, I'm great, but sometimes I think I'd be fine going another 6 months ! One thing that helps...wine! I hope you find your mojo and you pass some along to me as well.

 

it came back when i weaned, too--prior to that it was 100% MIA

 

You are not alone. Honestly i really dont wanna get preggo right now.. I think thats what its about. We do "it" a couple times a month or so.. theres just no time..