for all you moms

Discussion in 'The First Year' started by 2Xthelove, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. 2Xthelove

    2Xthelove Well-Known Member

    MOTHERS and MOMS

    If you send this to just one person, it should make

    it all the way around the world by Mother's Day.




    This is for the mothers who have sat up

    all night with sick toddlers in their arms,

    wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer

    wieners and cherry Kool-Aid saying,

    "It's okay honey, Mommy's here."


    Who have sat in rocking chairs for hours on end soothing crying babies who can't be comforted.


    This is for all the mothers who show up at

    work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains

    on their blouses and diapers in their purse.


    For all the mothers who run carpools and

    make cookies and sew Halloween costumes.

    And all the mothers who DON'T.


    This is for the mothers who gave birth to

    babies they'll never see. And the mothers

    who took those babies and gave them homes.


    This is for the mothers whose priceless art

    collections are hanging on their refrigerator doors.


    And for all the mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at football or soccer games instead of watching from the warmth of their cars.
    And that when their kids asked, "Did you see me, Mom?" they could say, "Of course, I wouldn't

    have missed it for the world," and mean it.


    This is for all the mothers who yell at their kids in the grocery store and swat them in despair when they stomp their feet and scream for ice cream before dinner. And for all the mothers who count to ten instead, but realize how child abuse happens.


    This is for all the mothers who sat down with

    their children and explained all about making

    babies. And for all the (grand)mothers who

    wanted to, but just couldn't find the words.


    This is for all the mothers who go

    hungry, so their children can eat.


    For all the mothers who read "Goodnight,

    Moon" twice a night for a year. And then

    read it again, "Just one more time."


    This is for all the mothers who taught

    their children to tie their shoelaces before

    they started school. And for all the mothers

    who opted for Velcro instead.


    This is for all the mothers who teach their sons

    to cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot.


    This is for every mother whose head turns automatically when a little voice calls "Mom?"

    in a crowd, even though they know their

    own offspring are at home -- or even away

    at college -- or have their own families.


    This is for all the mothers who sent their kids

    to school with stomach aches, assuring them

    they'd be just FINE once they got there, only

    to get calls from the school nurse an hour later

    asking them to please pick them up. Right away.


    This is for mothers whose children have gone

    astray, who can't find the words to reach them.

    For all the mothers who bite their lips until they

    bleed when their 14 year olds dye their hair green.


    For all the mothers of the victims of

    recent school shootings, and the mothers

    of those who did the shooting.


    For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their TVs in horror, hugging their child who just came home from school, safely.


    This is for all the mothers who taught their

    children to be peaceful, and now pray

    they come home safely from a war.


    What makes a good mother anyway?

    Is it patience? Compassion? Broad hips?
    The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and

    sew a button on a shirt, all at the same time?


    Or is it in her heart?
    Is it the ache she feels when she

    watches her son or daughter disappear

    down the street, walking to school alone

    for the very first time?


    The jolt that takes her from sleep to

    dread, from bed to crib at 2 A.M. to put

    her hand on the back of a sleeping baby?


    The panic, years later, that comes again

    at 2 A.M. when she just wants to hear

    their key in the door and know they

    are safe again in her home?


    Or the need to flee from wherever she is

    and hug her child when she hears news

    of a fire, a car accident, a child dying?


    The emotions of motherhood are

    universal and so our thoughts are for

    young mothers stumbling through diaper

    changes and sleep deprivation...

    And for mature mothers learning to let go.


    For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers.


    Single mothers and married mothers.


    Mothers with money, mothers without.


    This is for you all. For all of us...


    Hang in there. In the end we can

    only do the best we can. Tell them

    every day that we love them. And pray

    and never stop being a mother...


    Please pass along to all the mothers in your life.


    "Home is what catches you when

    you fall - and we all fall."


    Please pass this to a

    wonderful mother you know.


    (I just did!)

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  2. traci_roo

    traci_roo Well-Known Member

    That was wonderful! Thank you for sharing.
     
  3. lindsay084

    lindsay084 Well-Known Member

    that was soooo good!! i loved it :clapping:
     
  4. JDMummy

    JDMummy Well-Known Member

    That was amazing!
     
  5. monique+2

    monique+2 Well-Known Member

    Thank you so much I loved it, I don't know why but it made me cry.
     
  6. Jordari

    Jordari Well-Known Member

    You're not the only one crying.....

    Whenever I'm having a 'bad moment" I stop and think of all the parents around teh world who don't have enough to feed their babies, or who live in a place where there is a good possibility that a stray bullet or suicide bomber or jihadist or some crazy will do something so their baby/child won't be here tomorrow. And I wonder how I would keep from going crazy in that situation. And i count the blessings of the abundance of my life.
     
  7. kingeomer

    kingeomer Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    That is beautiful! I had tears in my eyes reading that. I feel so thankful for my babies every day even when I am having a bad day. There has been no greater joy in my life then becoming a mother...
     
  8. idtwinstx

    idtwinstx Well-Known Member

    Brought me to tears. i am going to send this to my own mom. Thanks!
     
  9. ahmerl

    ahmerl Well-Known Member

    beautiful, thank you for sharing!
     
  10. Vero

    Vero Well-Known Member

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing!
     
  11. tishahodges

    tishahodges Member

    that was so beautiful. by the end i wanted to cry. thank you.
     
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