FEELING WHINY - my own pity party

So I'm sitting/laying on the couch... feeling miserable. I know there are others of you out there, feeling my pain too. So I thought I'd post a WHINE because DH is at work and I have no one to complan to and I just want to vent so I get one with my day of laying down <_< and have my pity party.

This is my list of grips:
1. For the last couple of day my lower back has been KILLING me - it feels like I've been working out like crazy (except I haven't) and there are not enough pillows in the world to ease the pain.
2. Going to the bathroom, I feel like any second while i'm peeing I will see an arm come out. I've been having crazy pressure when I pee almost a throbbing pain - that feeling you get like your period is going to start - but nothing happens.
3.Pressure - I have been having crazy pressure all over the place - this include sharp pains when I try to sit/stand/move/breathe (these are all new too)
4. cramps -actually not to bad - the boys are causing most of them - they are both head down and ready to go so their feet/knees/hands and especially their BUTTS have been using my uterus wall as punching bags causing the constrictions

So in my insanity - I am trying to think of a reason to go to L&D to have them tell me I WISH that I"m ready to go and deliver. :umm: Which I know will not happen.
I also told my DH last night I wish all these aches and pains added up to something so I could deliver (I think I've hit the wall) and I still have at least 4 more weeks to go.

That's it... thank you ladies.

 

Hang in there! I'm miserable today too, today is just a crappy day. I wanted to go grocery shopping this morning but getting dressed wore me out and I don't feel like I can do it today. I'm so sore today, I don't know why and I have to go 7 more weeks
And when I started to stay home my plan was to clean part of the house each day. Well now I just don't always feel up to it. Some days I feel I can do it and some days I don't. And it bugs me to no end when DH asks me if I did any housework during the day! He probably doesn't mean anything by it but I swear if he asks me that today he's going to get an earful!

 

:love0028: Hug from another "wall" lady. It's so tough right now!! They say it gets a little better for a couple weeks, I actually felt better yesterday (just a smidgen). I hope you will too. When do you see doc again?

 

You can do this! :hug99: The longer you hold them in there the less NICU time they will have! I know its hard but it will be over before you know it! :hug99:

 

the crap feeling is back for me. it did go away for a bit, but now it's worse than ever!!
hang in there, ladies

 

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:love0028: Hug from another "wall" lady. It's so tough right now!! They say it gets a little better for a couple weeks, I actually felt better yesterday (just a smidgen). I hope you will too. When do you see doc again?


I go back on the 25th for my appointment and sono/measurements. I wish it was today.. ( I told you I was whiny )

 

Iunderstand how you feel-felt like crap yesterday and was crying and complaining all over the place-today is a better day (so far) and I think at this point you have to take it one day at a time. Hang in there-the babies need to stay cooking for a few more weeks!

 

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So in my insanity - I am trying to think of a reason to go to L&D to have them tell me I WISH that I"m ready to go and deliver. :umm: Which I know will not happen.
I also told my DH last night I wish all these aches and pains added up to something so I could deliver (I think I've hit the wall) and I still have at least 4 more weeks to go.


I am right there with you. My contractions have been different, not so much painful but definitely more uncomfortable, I cant breath and have a nasty hot flash with each one now. I also have a killer pain in my lower gut when I roll over or get up, and I think my pelvis and left hip are breaking when I get up to go to the bathroom. And I swear I am going to be shaking hands with my daughter on one of my many bathroom trips.

I had an ultrasound yesterday and was so sure my cervix were going to be non-existent and was almost disappointed to see there is still a little left. I was so sure all this 'crappiness' was leading up to labor. I even brought an overnight bag with me yesterday! I didnt want to come home. :blink:

Are you on bedrest too?

 

I here ya, just make sure it isn't a bladder infection, that just happened to my friend and she went in and that is what it turned out to be.

 

Well, I am REALLY GLAD that I am not the only one. I have been feeling like I have TOTALLY had ENOUGH. And when I think to myself - oh hurry up babies - I feel guilty because i know I need to cook them longer.
I didn't want to post on here because I know there are loads of ladies who are further along than me and that they must be feeling worse.
My sleeping patterns are all over the place and I'm tired all the time. My son loves sticking is feet into my ribs and often they both poke their butts out at the same time and it is so tight that it's hard to walk. I am physically disabled and I HATE IT. I feel so guilty because I want them to come out NOW. I am already a bad mother and they are not even here yet!!
I lost it last night and through tears told DH that I am so unhappy. He felt so bad because he has been a PIG lately, he is sucking up big time now.
So basically, i am right there with you. Hopefully this is just a passing thing and once they are born everything will be fine.
I am worried I will come down with a nasty case of PPD.
hugs to you

 

Boy, there must be something about the 30 - 31 week mark that brings out the WALL in everyone. I have nothing to add but yes, I know how you all feel and am right there with you. <_<