feeling a little blah

First of all had my Dr's appt. yesterday and babies are doing great thank god I am so grateful!!!!!!!! I have been moved up to seeing the doctor every two weeks now which will help the anxiety I get having to wait a month to see my babies ...But I have gained about 50 pounds and gave up hair dye when I found out I was pregnant (not taking any chances) So I have mile long roots...I have just discovered I have stretch marks (it is hard to see down there) I am just to darn tired to fix myself up and I never wanna hang out with our friends ( I feel bad for DH) He tries to be understanding, but I don't want him to go sturr crazy...I just feel gross I know I have miracles and I am so grateful for them..I feel guilty and selfish for feeling like this, but it just gets to me sometimes...Just wanted to vent and hopefully someone can kinda relate...

 

Oh my God, yes! :hug99: I can relate. I felt like that while I was pregnant...then felt guilty for feeling like that because I should have been just happy to be carrying twins, etc. But we are all human. :hug99: I'm sorry you feel like that too. If you are going to go hang out with friends, I'm sure they won't mind if you aren't all dolled up with make up and all. I wish I had suggestions on how to feel better. :hug99: On a side note, :Clap: for the babies doing great and getting biweekly appointments!!

We're all here when you need someone to listen.

 

I hear ya! I don't think your weird for your feelings. . .

 

:hug99: I'm sorry you are feeling this way! :hug99:

 

So understand your feelings. There were several days of crying and boohooing because I felt rotten, my feet and ankles were swelling (even when i sat) and I couldn't sit, eat, and I couldn't shave my legs!! Here's another hug :hug99: Hopefully with all these hugs you're getting you'll feel better soon!!

 

It will all be over before you know it. Hang in there. I felt the same way the last couple of weeks. (Although I did still color my hair!)

Crazy thing is, I really missed being pregnant. Now I just feel like none of my clothes fit, I have a huge tummy roll, and I don't see anyone b/c there is no time. Ahh... the things we women go through! :crazy:

 

Big hugs to you and I hope you get some energy soon! Take care!

 

I feel the same way even though I'm not that far along. I don't get dolled up to go anywhere, last time I put makeup on was about a month ago.

I kinda use the fact that I'm having twins as an excuse for anything and everything. I look gross...having twins.
Being snappy at people...having twins.
Wanting to eat a pound of peaches...having twins.

Never know, this might be your last chance to have twins. Milk it for what its worth! Lol

 

Being pregnant, and especially with twins, is not easy. :hug99:

 

Hey First Time! Hugs to you, it sucks to feel blah - god knows most women don't even have to be pregnant to know that feeling! Have you tried hilights or lowlights? I'm still having mine, they are pregnancy safe. Taking that trip to the salon to be pampered and then seeing your hair freshly cut, colored and dried is a always a huge booster for me, kind of eggs me on to get the rest of my life going when I'm in a rut . Maybe you could try that? =)
And if you are really too tired, then relax and enjoy vegging while you can! It's only a temporary state while you grow two healthy babies inside of you, and congratulations on the marvellous job you are making of that!

 

Hang in there :hug99: We have all been there and done that. You're entitled to feel tired and blah- you are carrying precious little cargo and they take alot out of you. Treat yourself to a mani or pedi- it might make you feel more relaxed. Or do something for yourself that you normally wouldn't do. I felt sorry for myself when I went on strict bedrest at 20wks but then I realized that it was for the 2 best reasons- my little miracles!!!!! Hang in there!!!!!

Tracy
Mom to Griffin & Alex :itwins_boys:
03/14/02 34wks