Do you love me mommy?

Lauren has started asking me this all the time now.:wub: When she first asked, I thought maybe she had done something wrong, but she hadn't. If she is playing and I go up to her or sometimes out of the blue she comes up to me and asks. It makes me sad to think that she questions this though. :cry:

 

Aww, I don't think she's questioning whether or not you really love her! How sweet that she asks you though!

 

This is what I was going to say. I think she is just realizing how to communicate her feelings :wub:

 

I don't think she doubts that you love her at all, Brandy. I think maybe she just really likes hearing you tell her. That is so sweet. :wub:

 

Oh, I am sure that she knows that, just hearing her ask it makes me pause. :laughing: She is by far my more affectionate child. When I tell Mattie that I love her, she just says "me too".

 

I have one that is more affectionate also. Hannah always wants hugs and loves to snuggle up with you. She will say "I need a hug" and give you a really big hug, then, "I need a kiss too" and grab your face and kiss you. Hailey... not so often. She's too busy!

 

Oh, so sweet! :wub: And yes, I think she just likes hearing it out loud.

 

That is soooo sweet!!

 

If it bothers you try telling her every hour or 2 hours and see if it changes things. She may be just going though a phase where she needs the reassurance. My DS will come up at random times and tell me he loves me. It is great.

 

I agree with pp's. I am sure she just likes hearing it. I get how it makes you stop and question it though. Coop has started asking me "Are you happy mom?" It makes me wonder if I seem unhappy alot. ^_^

 

Awww. :wub:

 

OMG, me too! Ivy does that to me lately. (And it makes me wonder the exact same thing! :lol: )

 

I think it's sweet and definitely as pp suggested, just looking for reassurance and figuring out her emotions. :wub:

As for the unhappy comments above, mine will ask "are you nice mommy today?" because I made the mistake of telling them one day when I was having a bad day and yelled a little too much that I was sorry for not being nice mommy that day. :blush: :fool: