Do you exist anymore? LOL

It's so funny to me, since the babies are born everyone (family) is always wanting to see them. They call it "their twin fix" so we alway joke with them and say "Do you even remember our names?"

When I was pregnant it was all about me and how I was feeling, now it's about them and we no longer exist I don't mind, that's the way it should be, I just think it's funny!

The twinkies are so loved.

 

I must say I am more than happy to have the attention off of me. Was so sick of being asked how I was feeling and so on. I don't like attention and I don't want to be pampered(except by my hubby) and so it is a huge relief for me not to be pregnant anymore. The boys deserve the attention so much more than I do

Dianna

 

I think if my kids could drive themselves to our relatives houses Mike and I would never get invited anywhere.

 

I've gotten used to getting knocked out of the way so family/friends can get to the boys. Dh even does that if he's been gone...goes by me so fast, I practically spin around. I always tell people I'll be the one in the corner being ignored if they need me.

 

oh yes since Ethan came home all they do is say i wanna come over to see the baby we need our Etha fix lol. I was getting tired of ppl asking me how i was as well. now i kinda wish ppl would ask how im doing from time to time but thats just because of what happened. I love that Ethan gets all the attention ;o)

alittle side note-our family is made that we may be moving another 10min away from the because "We are taking the baby away from them" hehe

 

I kind of like it, the people take the kids and I can go get something done, like laundry!

 

I do enjoy it too! No one cares about us ... so sometimes my parents or sister will stop by ... and we unexpectedly get to go out!!! I love when that happens ... cause really, no one cares about us!

I must say, I was a little sad after I had the twins because I didn't feel "special" anymore. The first few times I went out (without the twins) people didn't talk to me and ask me when I was due (which I guess is good! haha) ... but I went from feeling super special, to normal. And I was a little sad. I missed that feeling of them inside me. But forget it, go out WITH the twins, and I get too much attention.

I think maybe for me it was more of a mourning the fact that I knew I would probably never be pregnant again. Whatever ... either way, I agree, no one cares about me, they just love the kids. And I'm ok with that.

Erica

 

Yep it is all about them!! I know that there have been family events where I think we would of gotten kicked out if I didn't have the twins!!!

I am just glad people have enjoyed them though they are going through stranger anxiety and scream when we walk into a group of people.

April