Bittersweet...

Discussion in 'Pregnancy Help' started by sumerlinzi, May 2, 2008.

  1. sumerlinzi

    sumerlinzi Member

    I had my NT scan this morning and we discovered that Baby B was non-vital. It grew to almost 9 weeks. My heart feels so sad, yet so happy because Baby A was thriving and doing wonderfully. It's amazing the emotional rollercoaster this whole trying to conceive and pregnancy brings with it. I'm no stranger to losses, this will be my third one in just over a year. But I can't help but feel happy and excited at the same time because one of my twins is still doing very well.

    I just wanted to thank you ladies for the wonderful amounts of support you've given me in my short time with you here. I hope you all have safe and happy, healthy pregnancies!

    God bless,
    Summer
     
  2. lisaessman@verizon.net

    [email protected] Well-Known Member

    I am sorry about your little B, and I hope and pray that all stays well with your little A. :hug99:
     
  3. SMax

    SMax Well-Known Member

    So sorry to hear about your little baby b...you are in my prayers. Continued warm wishes for your pregnancy.
     
  4. summerfun

    summerfun Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    Summer, I am so sorry to hear this. :cray: Please know you are still welcome to post here and will always be a twin mom. :hug99:
     
  5. moski

    moski Well-Known Member TS Moderator

    I am so sorry for your loss. :hug99: Wishes coming your way for a healthy pregnancy with your little one. You will always be a twin mom! :hug99:
     
  6. Heathermomof5

    Heathermomof5 Well-Known Member

    I am so very sorry. :hug99:
     
  7. TwinLove

    TwinLove Well-Known Member

    Summer, I am so very sorry to hear about baby B. :hug99: I hope that Baby A keeps on thriving. :hug99:
     
  8. shandy

    shandy Well-Known Member

    oh, Summer... my heart aches for your loss... I am so sorry.
    I am so happy that baby A is doing wonderful though - let's keep him/her safe and healthy!
     
  9. Jenn G

    Jenn G Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry to hear about Baby B, but I'm so happy that Baby A is doing so well. :hug99:
     
  10. Overachiever

    Overachiever Well-Known Member

    Oh, Summer, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please let us know how Baby A is doing if you feel up to updating us. :hug99:
     
  11. weekazarr

    weekazarr Well-Known Member

    im so sorry to hear about baby b...but glad baby a is doing well...
    keep us updated xx
     
  12. jillangel

    jillangel Well-Known Member

    I am sorry to hear about baby b. I am happy to hear baby a is doing well.
     
  13. ckreh

    ckreh Well-Known Member

    Summer,

    I am so sorry. Sending lots of :hug99: your way.
     
  14. HRE

    HRE Well-Known Member

    :hug99: I am so sorry about little baby b..I will pray for baby a to grow well!
     
  15. PJ

    PJ Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry for your loss. I had the same thing happen in my first pregnancy. It's so hard to describe as you are so happy for your healthy baby but so sad for your lost one.

    I hope you stick around.... :hug99:
     
  16. Sofiesmom

    Sofiesmom Well-Known Member

    I am sorry for your loss, and congrats on your thriving twin!

    HUGS and please stick around!
     
  17. heatherlfd

    heatherlfd Member

    O Summer, I am sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts. I am glad to hear that Baby A is doing well! Please keep us updated.
     
  18. Carrie27

    Carrie27 Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of well wishes with the other baby that it continues to grow strong and healthy!
     
  19. twoplustwo

    twoplustwo Well-Known Member

    :love0028: :love0028: :love0028:
     
  20. twinzmom2b

    twinzmom2b Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry to hear about baby b. I hope that baby A continues to thrive. I hope you'll still continue to post and visit here...you'll always be a twin mommy and don't let anyone tell you differently!
     
  21. sumerlinzi

    sumerlinzi Member

    Dear Ladies,
    I just wanted to tell you how touched I am from the outpouring of kind words from all of you. I appreciate it very much. It's nice to have people in your corner, supporting you. I thank you, especially for the invitation to stick around here and the recognition of still being a twin mommy. :) Your words really, really touched my heart!

    Much love,
    Summer
     
  22. jcooke

    jcooke New Member

    I am so sorry to hear about your baby B. You were right about it being bittersweet. I know it will be tough because you want to mourn the loss of your baby but you now have to stay strong and take care of yourself for your other baby. It's ok to be sad and cry as long as you don't skip meals. Even if you don't feel like eating (which might be impossible for a pregnant woman!) a little snack here and there will keep your body and your baby strong. Take care and make sure to talk to people. Keeping your feelings bottled up can only make it worse and lead to other feelings of sadness with all those hormones racing through your body.
     
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