another dh vent

Dh can never be ready for anything on time. He is late to work every day, it is a miracle that he has not gotten fired since this has been going on for 9 years (he is a great employee otherwise). Lucky for him, they don't care. He needs to be at work 60 miles away at 8am (and there is tons of traffic here at this time) and he just left now. And it becomes a vicious cycle. He gets home later (he stays to make up the time) so he goes on "baby duty" later, which means I get my break (to eat dinner, shower, do laundry and make bottles (some break)) later, and that we both go to bed later (we don't leave the babies alone yet to sleep (long story) I go to sleep "with them" when I take over) and the babies still get up at 5:30 am, so guess who suffers with not enough sleep??? And then he does not even go to bed after that and cannot get up in the morning. Hence the vicious cycle. And I don't even get to sleep extra on the weekends. Grrrrr I am just so mad!!

ps Forgot to say, he says he does freelance work after I take over, which he does but I am sure he spends lots of time futsing around too.

 

do the 10 minute rule.. what ever you can accompish ie bottles in 10 minutes..

then do somethng for yourself..

hang in there

 

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All i have to say is that men suck sometimes, especially mine! So hang in there. Big :hug99: to you x

 

Mine is late to work every morning as well. Good thing they don't care either!

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Today he left even later than yesterday!! And he has the nerve to act like I should hurry it up when I am taking my "break". Like I said, some break, eat dinner quickly, make bottles/food dishes for the next day, laundry, take a shower and anything else I can't get done during the day. And then he gets mad when I tell him that it is all on his shoulders because if he got up and got to work on time, he would get home earlier, etc. And since one of us is always with the babies, when we have this conversation he gets upset with me for "fighting" in front of the babies and how it is my fault that they get cranky, because I am negative in front of them. So in other words, I should just keep everything bottled up and go away and his life would be wonderful because no problems would be talked about therefore there are none. And he wonders why I can't lose my baby weight.