a little personal but i need to know

hello ladies, like i said maybe a little personal but i have to ask ..last night dh and i engaged in a little lovemaking session a once a week thing if that .. anyway he said that this time he couldnt penetrate all the way it felt like he was hitting something or something was in the way.first time he has ever felt this it didnt hurt me or anything and he is always gentle , but hmmm it makes me nervouse .i have my ob appt on wed im going to mention it to her i went to ob 2 weeks ago and my cervix was long high and hard .. alot of people are telling me i dropped alot..so could it be my cervix..has this happened to anyone else..if any of you ladies have any input please let me know..thanks a bunch
Tammy

 

before dh and i got pregnant if we were going at it a lil too rough he would hit the back and it HURTS when they hit the cervix...maybe youre really swollen down there? lol you made me jealous with your post, im feeling incredibly deprived right now! good thing he's away or i'd be a real mess trying NOT to get all hot and bothered lol doc told us no more at 16wks blah!

 

Same thing here. You are probably swollen and thats what he was feeling. My poor poor deprived hubby he is lucky if he gets it once a month at this point!

 

The same thing happened to us. It was before 20 weeks (when I was given the No Sex order by the doc). DH thought he hit the baby in the head.

 

I was told by the doc no sex from when we first found out I was pregnant until 16 weeks (due to a blood clot in my uterus). And when we finally had sex it was extremely painful for me. So I don't plan on doing it anymore.

 

My OB said that eventually my dh would be able to feel the babies head. And she was right. Actually, my last apt. when she was checking me right when she put her fingers in she said "Whoa there's a baby's head RIGHT there!" an she had to go behind his head to get to the cervix.

So he might be hitting his head.

 

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My OB said that eventually my dh would be able to feel the babies head. And she was right. Actually, my last apt. when she was checking me right when she put her fingers in she said "Whoa there's a baby's head RIGHT there!" an she had to go behind his head to get to the cervix.

So he might be hitting his head.

OMG can u imagine if that is what it is...i just read that to dh and he said "were done thats just disturbing" ..lol.. he makes me laugh...well i have my ultrasound tomorrow and ob appt so i guess i will find out... i hope im just swolen i was telling everyone today that if i go in and by some miracle the dr says the babies weigh over 5 pounds ill wait about a week then im provoking them out.lol.. i have had enough....so different than my singleton but then again she is 14 now and i was only 18 im 33 years old now and my body is older cant handle it..dh says while im in recovery hes getting snipped my hormones just killed it for him.fine by me im done to.

 

I'm on so sex orders at least until week 14. Maybe after that we can experience some of this for ourselves before the doc pulls us back off the sex.