1 yr old twins and 3 yr old

My 3 yr old morgan means well, but everytime she trys to play with them they end up crying or shes to rought etc.. Its getting sickening everyday telling her to be careful. Shell play really good then if they dont do what she wants she gets mad and pushes them, for an example. Will this get better? Will they every all play together nicely? I am an only child and never had to deal with sibleing things like this.
Any ideas on what I can do to teach her to be nice.. I feel like Iam yelling at her all day and feel bad for that. When the boys take there naps during the day we do things together so shes getting some one on one time.. Iam hoping once they get a little older theyll understand each other a little more and play better.
misty-

 

I don't have any advice, I just want you to know that I am in the same boat, your not alone. My oldest loves them and can be so sweet and then turn all of a sudden. I hope it is a short phase.

Cari

 

THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE IS WHEN YOU DIRECT HER TO DOSOMETHNG .. ANYTHING.. TELL HER TO LOOK AT YOUR NOSE.. AND DONT GIVE HER DIRECTION UNTIL SHE IS PAYING ATTENTION..

ALSO TELL HER TO USE HER EARS.. IE.. WHEN SHE PULLS ON HER OWN EARS.. SHES PAYING ATTENTION..

 

My oldest is 3 1/2 and she is pretty nice to Kate, but SO mean to Charlie. I feel like I am constantly after her also. She plays too rough and seems to always take the toy out of their hands....so aggravating!

 

i would love to give u the answer for this but i am in the same boat as you. camerin loves to play with the twins but he gets way to rough. caden accually laughs when camerin pushes his etc and will crawl over and try and hit camerin but caleb on the other hand the poor thing is 1 and is as big as a 7mtn old baby and he will ball his eyes out...but the weired thing is that caleb will follow his big brother every where he goes and take the torture lol

 

Lol oh lord that scares me! the twins will be 3 when the other twins will be one....I can just imagine a battle scene.


I dont know what to tell you but i wish you the best of luck...Please let me know what you find to work!

 

We're in the same situation here! You are not alone.