Update from Peris office

Hey Girls,

Just wanted to let you all know that i did end up going back to Peri yesterday to check on babies because of the back pain and BH. Peri says they look okay and that it is probably all the stress that I have been through in the last couple of days. He says to rest and drink lots of water.

I asked him more questions as to what was going on since i was floored when i got the call and he said that they are testing the baby for testicular feminization, smith lee(can't remember) and ambigious genitiial.. He did another ultra sound and showed me the big babys goods and they were def. there. Sticking straight out. They small baby still doesn't look like that. I am still hoping its cause he is small but i don't know. Doc says there is a bump there but even girls have bumps in the middle. I don't know what that means. He did say that we may not for sure until baby is born. So i am waiting for the results to see what the tests come back to say.

He asked me if i thought i wanted to terminate the baby or continue, and i lost it. I seen the baby moving and kicking and i just whole heartingly couldn't do it without knowing the full facts. He said that if i had a decision to let him know, but i am hoping the test will bring back some good answers and just that we don't have a good shot. So, that is were i stand now... I am feeling tired, but have work to do!

Thanks again for all you prayers,
Maria

 

Maria, :hug99: I am so sorry sweetie that you still don't have the answers you need. :hug99: I don't blame you for being so stressed over this, I hope you can find a way to relax a bit and do your body good. :hug99:

 

Oh my goodness! I am so sorry you have to go through this. My prayers are with you. Please try to not let the stress get to you. Hopefully you will get some good news from the tests. Please keep us updated because we are worried and concerned for you!

 

Maria, I continue to think of you and your two precious babies. . .

 

Maria, I'm sorry you didn't get any answers. :hug99:

 

Maria,
I know this was a post a from a long time ago, but I was wondering what ever came of your little twin. I am facing the same thing and just wondering what happen. I have been told it was a girl then a boy then we are not sure we will have to see when it born, just curious.
Thanks, AP

 

I'm not sure that's she's still around since her post count is only 50. I did look under her profile and if you search her 'topics' it looks like she had her boys in july 08...and they were both boys. One just had a condition called 'hyposaidous' or something like that. I think sometimes the testicles can fail to descend properly, but it can be corrected surgically. I'm not sure that this was her son's problem or not though. hope your little ones are fine and healthy! :hug:

 

I am a Mom Baby PCA and a hypospadius is not that big of a deal. Sure it is scary to think anything could be wrong with a child but we have boys born all the time with them. It just means they can't be circumsised until they are seen by a urologist. It saddens me to think her doctor offered her termination because of such a small issue. I hope all of you are doing well.