Anyone still having sex, or even interested? Im 33 weeks and Im a heffer to say the least, I have a belly that I cant suck in and *** that goes for days (and not in a good way) I cant lay on my back, being ontop my belly still gets in the way, spooning works but I literally can only lay there, I cant move or reposition in anyway... it sucks. I feel like a dead fish and thats not the 'feeling' I like while snuggling I honestly have no desire at this point to DTD and (gawd I hope DH doesnt read this) :laughing: have no interest but have been for the sake of keeping hubby happy. Are you still having sex or doing anything else for hubby while your miserably preggo? :FIFblush:
yessum! i am only doing it to make the DH happy and hopefully buy myself some time for after the twins are born. We have had a great sex life almost twice a week if not more almost our whole relationship so the thought of him going any longer than he has to without it kind of freaks me out so i am willing to try anything ( i even looked up tips for sex positions in the 3rd trimester.) i can't get into it anymore because i am sooooo huge and everything hurts or i have to go pee i just do not feel sexy anymore. oh and my boobies like to leak whenever he puts the moves on me....not very sexy if you ask me
my hubby officially cut me off the day we found out it was twins! He did this with our first daughter too, and it was kind of wierd getting back in the groove after being cleared. He says it is just too risky for the babies even though everyone has assured him it is OK. So, I have the opposite problem!
I was put on pelvic rest (as the dr termed it) at 30 weeks becaue of PTL so I can't help much with that. Just an FYI it will probably be 6 weeks after before you are supposed to.
Mine too. He tried a couple of times after finding out they were twins, but couldn't get into it... Then we found out it was girls and that was the end of even trying! He thought that he would somehow traumatize them or something!
Well Im just SOOO big thats its uncomfortable, but I dont want him to.. "suffer" cause ya know not getting any is traumatizing for any man :laughing: glad to hear Im not the only one... I just wish he would feel for my big ol belly and give me a break :FIFblush:
I was never put on pelvic rest and we had sex up until 5 hours before I went into labor at 36 weeks 5 days. If you aren't put on any restrictions from your doctor and if you are up to it, do it!
I tried to stay in to it until I was put on bedrest and that was the end of that, however oral sex was still an option so he didnt complain (sorry if that's TMI). And yeah, I totally get that there comes a point when you just feel too big to be sexy! :laughing:
I am still early enough that it isnt too bad...yet! Hahaaaa! I remember that it was a long time before I had sex after Eva was born. Not only pp, but I wanter birth control to be fully engaged! This time, if I have another cs, I will be getting my tubes tied, so I can get into it faster! I have been a lot more interested this time than I was with my daughter!
I have the same questions. My dh thinks my belly is sexy. I'm only 20 weeks and measuring 42" around and not feeling it. Besides oral, for those of you still doing it...well, um. How? What's the best position? I realize I'm not getting anything out of it. Do you fake it?
We used what friends of ours call The T. You lay on your side, he is on his knees. You have the 1 leg up, supported by him. No pressure on the babies, no work for you.
Our sex life has definitely taken a nosedive. We average about once a week these days. Our mornings are hectic, and by evening I'm usually too tired. And when we do have it, sometimes it's a little uncomfortable. I miss it! But maybe we'll try the T.
We were put on pelvic rest at 26 weeks for a shortening cervix... since then it has lengthened and I am not dilated at all. We plan on asking the Dr if we can resume. I am missing it just as much as he is! Sex and the orgasms (sorry TMI) have been amazing since I have been pregnant. I can still get on top sometimes or he goes in from behind as we spoon. I am hoping we can resume! I am sure there will come a point when I am just too big but right now it still works and I still want it Quick question: If I end up with a c-section is it the same 6 week rule for sex after? With our last baby we only waited 4 but It was a fast delivery a small baby and I wore a panty liner the whole time.. have no idea what a c-section holds in store in that department.
We just recently called it quits, it hurts soooo bad... but we would do the spooning position, or on my knees, and ontop (although that didnt last long considering my belly was SOO much in the way) it was just weird when I would be getting kicked and feeling hiccups and trying to enjoy some time with hubby... :FIFblush:
